Search Results: emotionally distant at times

Was any of this real?

I was in a relationship for 4 months, during which: 1. We got together fairly quickly 2. He told me he thought I was perfect for him, that he thought it was love at first sight and that he might've proposed if we were...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Was I just someone he f***ed?

A few months ago, I met this guy and we clicked immediately. We had a relationship (which he refused to define) for a few months, after which we ended it because I was moving 10,000 miles back home. In the first few...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

After 5 years I'm convinced he's never loved me.

OK I'll try to keep this brief. Been off and on w him for 5 years. He's the type that is cold, distant, emotionally detached. When some argument arose, they stemmed from his behavior/actions. Being disrespectful,...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Flirting

Help with girlfriend feeling loved?

I've been dating my current girlfriend for over two months, and things, I thought, have been great. Compared to my past relationships, where my exes were fairly emotionally distant (or only liked limited amounts of...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

Doomed to be the rebound girlfriend?

Ive been dating a guy for 6 months, I thought he was wonderful and we were incrediby well matched, but two months ago he started becoming distant and I found out last week that, although he likes me as a person and finds...

louberr

Xper 5 Age: 45

Dating

Ladies do you think it's wussy for a guy to send his girlfriend good morning texts?

Is it wussy for a guy to send his girlfriend good morning texts, text everyday and ask how her day has gone? I'm not pushing for sex because she hasn't dated many guys and I'm a virgin that only wants to sleep with one...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I just walk away from all this? Or should I try to explain to my recent ex that the other one is lying?

So, my girlfriend was very jealous, as pretty controlling. And I'm about 99% sure emotionally abusive as well. We split up once before, and right after she slept with another guy. I heard about and called her on it after...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Thinking about becoming an escort.

I'm at university and working two jobs, barely getting by. I've been thinking about it for a while. I've done paid modelling. I know I have the looks and I'm also extremely emotionally distant. Just a few times a week to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

He Looked Up Someone He Used to Like

I posted here a few days ago saying how my boyfriend of 5 and half year seems distant. He is 37, I am 36 and in the five and half years we have been together it has been a rollercoaster. I have found texts from other...

samantha39

Xper 4 Age: 51

Flirting

When does a girl decide she wants a relationship?

So I had a few week fling with a girl who I knew previously. We hit it off amazingly but she was moving 1000miles away. We had an instant comfort. We stayed the night at each others places(no sex) kissed frequently, held...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Boyfriend doesn't want marriage?

samantha39

Xper 4 Age: 51

Girl's Behavior

How much longer should I try? Or should I give up already?

So I met this girl about a month ago and admittedly I moved very quickly emotionally and physically (no sex mind you). I spilled my heart out to her and made her a priority in my life. We clicked so easily and well it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

Do I suffer from bad experience trauma?

I have been married for almost 1 year. My wife has all of a sudden started taking the extra time to look extra good for work, no longer calls me on breaks, acts distant at home and doesn't wanna go anywhere together and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

Don't know what to do, he cheated & hardly apologized, I need closure!

My boyfriend & I had been going through a rough patch for quite a while, he suddenly became distant & wanted to spend less time with me and more time with his friends. Every time I tried to talk to him he would say that...

Madamspeaker

Xper 5 Age: 38

Flirting

Does she still love me?

I have a LDR. We meet online and when I was in her town we meet up. We were both already emotionally attached to one another but after spending three days together we both fell in love. It happened so fast. We made mad...

Upperbodyripped

Xper 5 Age: 47

Society & Politics

Have you ever made a mistake & watched your life have a domino effect?

I worked a a retail store last year, met my now boyfriend, and met a lot of other people I wish I had never came in contact with. I started dating my now boyfriend last summer, but told him I just wanted to be friends...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

She's being distant, what should I do?

Well then, been a LONG time since I've been here but I guess I have nowhere else to turn. I met a girl back in January, we've been extremely close ever since. I confessed feelings for her and she said she's not...

gotc147

Guru Age: 38

Relationships

Was I used by my female friend?

I was close to this girl emotionally, she talked to me about her troubles and called me randomly late at night and we would talk for hours. She would always initiate conversation if she spotted me online on messenger. We...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Is my boyfriend pulling away from me completely?

hi so I'm new to this, and I was just looking for a bit of advice, I can't really understand why this is happening:/ well I'm 16 and my boyfriend has just turned 18, and we've been together for 22 months, so we started...

kimmy1195

Xper 4 Age: 31

Girl's Behavior

Why being with someone you love still feel lonely?

My boyfriend have been studying and working full time, so we haven't been able to spend a lot of time together over the last few months, plus he has been away so it feels like we becoming emotionally distant from each...

Anonymous

(36-45)