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My boyfriend and I started dating in high school and are going into out second year of college now. There's this girl at his school who is so pretty and extremely nice, basically perfect. His school is pretty small so everyone knows everyone and all the guys obsess over her because she doesn't hook up with anyone and is "hard to get". Well she and my boyfriend have been snapchatting a lot and it's back and forth for hours sometimes. He claims they're just friends and I trust that he won't cheat on me but I'm scared she's taking it a different way and actually has feelings for him. He mostly just sends funny faces but she gets like personal about her like and He tries to hide it sometimes from me but anytime I look over as he's texting or taking a picture, it's to her. I just don't like this feeling. I'm kinda jealous that she's getting so much attention from him, I feel like when you're in a relationship you should give another girl more attention than your own girlfriend. it's not like that all the time but sometimes it is and I don't like it. I'm not sure what to do about this, I'm scared for when August rolls around and he goes back to school. what if she tries to make a move? I'm scared to talk to him about it because I do trust him and he can have friends that are girls.. I just don't like how close they are.. it seems a little to intimate of a friendship for a guy with a girlfriend. Guys, is this normal? Should I be nervous? what should I do?

This is all a very long story, but to make it short. He liked me in high school, I liked him in college. We dated briefly in high school and I broke up with him. Then we almost dated in college... except he told me he was just trying to get back at me for not liking him in high school. It was a mess. He said he was just using me to make up for his own loneliness. We never kissed or anything... it was bizarre.

Fast forward some.. I said we couldn't be friends, he begged and begged. I finally gave in b/c I realized it was doing more hurt than good... So we restarted our friendship. I hated hanging out w/ him at first b/c I didn't trust him. I kind of still don't?

He and I are really really bad at not being close friends. We actually like telling each other our secrets and hearing each other's opinions. I didn't want to be close w/ him like this ever again, but we seem to weasel our way into each other's lives no matter what. fml.

So two weeks ago I was very stressed. Over the phone he asked me when it was that I last got laid and with whom. He suggested I use it as a stress reliever. As we are NOT that close right now, I thought this was REALLY awkward! It's like he's checking in on my sex life.

Week later I got wasted and wrote him about how I thought it was a weird/awkward question. So last night... we have an ENTIRE discussion about sex and our sexual experiences. It was fine and hilarious sharing some silly things.

I just worry about getting too close with him again. I mean, where do we draw the friendship line? We both had very strong feelings for one another at some point in our lives and neither of us want to like the other again... so where do we stop telling each other things?

I had a boyfriend for a year and a half. We both loved to be goofy together and do anything that could possibly be fun. After I graduated from high school he broke up with me, because he was younger than me. We have been broken up for a year and up until recently have has LITERALLY zero contact with each other. He initiated contact with me recently and we got together and talked for hours and ended up kissing. While we were talking we talked about all of the things we used to do together and more or less took a long walk down memory lane. He spoke jealously, asking me about why I talk to the people who are my snap chat best friends. I could tell that it really upset him that I had been snap chatting guys, because it meant that I was talking to other guys. He also saw other people's names come up on my phone while we were talking and was very jealous that I had ever texted some guys. The next afternoon we were texting and he let me know that he wasn't interested in a relationship right now, because he is focusing on getting into a college athletic program and needs to work on his skills. He suggested we just be friends with benefits... Shortly after this he asked me if I wanted to come over to his grandparents house to meet his brother's new son. I told him I couldn't because I was at the gym. An hour and a half later he asked me again if I'd come see the baby.
I feel like I am getting mixed signals from him. Friends with benefits one second, come hang out with me and my family and meet the new addition the next second. HELP!!!