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Since the SuperBowl is coming, I found this analogy fitting.

I was talking to my 12 year bro about girls (since he's in grade 7).

I came up with this analogy for guys in reference to relations with females, and it made sense to him, so I'll share what I came up with.

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Males teach the "offensive" skills in dating: as in instilling overall MASCULINITY (females can't teach this no matter how much they try), how to spark interest, sexually attract, and ultimately get a girl (hookup, FWB, eventually girlfriend if that what's he after).

This, males teach "offense", how to score points, how to "get the lead", aka how to get her initially.

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Females teach the "defensive" skills in dating: how to make a girl feel special, how to communicate with the female gender, and most importantly how females feel & think about certain situations / issues / topics when they arise, as well as how the guy can tend to these needs.

These are important once the guy is in a relationship because the "defense" is how the emotional needs by the female are met to keep her happy and overall satisfied in a relationship.

With no defense, how can you maintain your offensive production, right?

Thus, females teach "defense", how to "maintain the lead", aka how to keep her once you get her.

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Like I told my brother, there's a reason why guys that take the large majority of "girl advice" from girls portray themselves as less masculine and , have problems getting girls in the first place.

While guys who get the large majority of guys who get "girl advice" from other guys (friends, neighbors, etc.), can get girls to hook-up with, but can't keep a girlfriend.

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I think I'm on to something.

What do you think about what I said above? Do you agree or disagree?

Please vote and elaborate. Be long-winded like me if you want lol.

Don't forget to rate the question.

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Thanks for reading and your input, everyone. :)