Search Results: no spark at a date

If you dated a guy for just a month, with roughly 5 dates in total and very little texting and no phone calls, but still considering every date to go very well with good chemistry. Add a few kisses and hugs but no sex.
Circumstances are you need to go different ways (Long Distance relationship for example, or if the guy had to go to war or something)
So in order to not put each other through too much pain, you decided to break up and initiate the NO CONTACT strategy, then talk later to evaluate the possibility of getting back together later when circumstances are more favorable.

The flaw in this plan, is that the NO CONTACT contract has no clear duration agreed upon by both parties, first to break the rule kind of decides for the other. It's been two weeks, and I feel calm and composed again, ready to discuss the next step, but I'm scared of finding that she's still affected. She did seem quite the romantic and sensible woman... but it's been just a month worth of dating.

Opinions?
How long before you'd get over the break up of such a short relationship?
I promised her we would talk and consider the next step, but I'm getting over her and if I wait too long, I might just lose the spark, and then she'll be shattered all the same.