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Last week, I went to my boyfriend (hes 21 I'm 22) of 4 years house while he wasn't there to see him. I called his phone & it rang in a bowl of rice. I picked it & curiously looked through it. I was bound 2 find something Pics of hos & a dic pic ft my boyfriend. I don't know what 2 do. He came in the door & I was going 2 put it bac but it was 2 late. He instantly knew his fone was missin. He asked if I went through it. I denied I wasn't ready to face him wntd 2 face my feelings 1st. He kickd me out. I left. I came bac for my things but he said "we can talk about it" I said I didn't. "So u did go through my fone" "yea I did" "we can talk about it" I wnted 2 but I was too hurt. He left n said somethin = 2 "I should've messd w/ "sara" n stormed out b4 I culd get a wrd in. I drove off & I was furious. I textd him "that's why ur life shitty" n " burn in hell" I went down the st to his uncles & felt like I deservd an explanation. I went inside & heard "oh she's mad!" Indicating he got my message. I surprised him he said Wyd here. I demanded we talkd outside. His bullshit excuses n my valid points mixd. He was bein ignorant & was tryin 2 provoke me in2 hittin him. I ddnt. He grabbed my wrist trying 2 threatn me But it got 2 me so bad I baby spat on him & he got angry & blamed me. I should've left, I deeply regret it. I realized what I done & I left as he called me a ho for no reason. The next day apologized on Insta, because I blockd him evrywhere I was in pain. I told him no one deserves that. Then I got my sister 2txt him so I culd grab my things. He said "long as I dnt spit on him." I wsnt goin 2see him. Our friend told me he heard what happened &said we broke up bcus I spat on him. Blaming me. Anyways it's been a week I hvnt calls or texted. & I want us work but not now bcus I want him to realize the damaged he causd. I love him. He & I r in bad places in our lives. & he does Coke & I tell him to quit. I tried 2 help him & nothin wrks & b

My boyfriend of 3 years dumped me last week and doesn't want to hear from me.

I feel terrible because I'm the one that once brought up the topic of my two deal-breakers long ago on the very first day we became girlfriend and boyfriend. I'm not demanding but told him if he ever cheated (whether it's physical or emotional) or any physical contact done in anger (spitting included) it would result in an immediate break-up and if he came back knocking on my door to apologize, I would close the door in his face. He reassured me it wouldn't happen. Never had that happened to me but just wanted to make sure because my aunt, my older sister and a couple female friends went through that.

Forward to Saturday of last week: I didn't cheat but broke the other rule when I was completely drunk (much more than he was), we started arguing and next thing I did is slapped him hard and started pushing him. Then I realized what I was doing (honestly I was shocked at my self at the moment) and as I tried to apologized, he said it was over and started leaving.

I've only called him twice and on the 2nd time, he did brough up what I've told him long ago and not to call again or else he's going to block my number. I'm leaving him alone. I totally screwed up big time.

But if any one of you have different opinions, you may feel free to comment. Guys (well girls can comment too) would this be over to you too? I have gotten drunk on a couple special occasions but never turned into a bad drunk and never hit anyone in my life. I'm still shocked myself. I feel disgusted.