Search Results: we are not in an official relationship

Should I make the first move?

OKay, basically this guy and I dated for 6 months last year but it was not really official like boyfriend and girlfriend type thing yet it was definitely exclusive. I heard some stuff about him cheating and I ended it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

OKay, basically this guy and I dated for 6 months last year but it was not really official like boyfriend and girlfriend type thing yet it was definitely exclusive. I heard some stuff

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My Boyfriend Speaks Down to me?

My boyfriend coerced me to tell him about my past experiences and he was upset that I had sex with a guy before I knew him. Basically, in January 2016 I was dating a guy (we weren't really official) and things didn't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was I wrong to break up over this?

My ex boyfriend of two years ago came into life want to date. Were dating been dating for two months. I asked him could we make the relationship fb official. He said "its too soon. I just got out of a relationship 4...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I allowed to see other guys when I'm in an unofficial relationship?

I'm stuck in murky waters with this guy that I've been seeing. We are currently a thing but we haven't made it official. He acts like we are dating already, but he hasn't actually asked me out yet and this thing we got...

JHBgirl

Xper 5 Age: 28

Girl swore off dating... Help? Lol?

Hey guys and girls, Not sure if it’s an odd one, but I started hanging out with an old femal friend of mine, we used to have something in the past a few years ago, but never anything official.. I did take her virginity....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does he like me or should I give Up?

So, I met this guy a while ago and he asked me out. We went on a few dates and I slepped at his twice. From the point on when we met he always had hicceys on his neck. I never asked but at one point he told me a drunk...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would this be a deal breaker?

Been seeing a new guy for about 6 weeks. He knows I lost a huge part of my income not long ago and he’s given me over $2000 to help me out. We aren't official yet. Our choice. But exclusively seeing each other....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Please help! Is this a slow fade?

We have been together for 1.5 years. We don't have an official label but we enjoy a fun relationship and good communication. He has always been honest with as far as I can tell. He's polite and says he likes to treat me...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Text from an ex?

I met this guy as I was on vacation over the summer and we clicked so much and we were inseparable. But unfortunately I had to go back home and we are 2,000 miles away from eachother. We decided to make it official and be...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to get him to communicate? Is that even possible?

The guy I've been seeing is so sweet and fun to hangout with, and I really have nothing negative to say about him other than one (pretty important) characteristic... he literally can't communicate his feelings. He said it...

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Xper 5 Age: 31

Is there ever an appropriate "speed" a relationship is supposed to go?

So I started talking to this girl I was set up with March 27th. 3 days later we met for the first time. March 31st I asked her out. April 2nd was our first official date. We have been using literally every second we have...

jamesouellette

Xper 5 Age: 26

Break Up & Divorce

Got back with my ex but I don’t have feelings for him anymore?

Our relationship was toxic, he used to get mad at me everytime I went out (and viceversa), we fought a lot, mostly because he’s a nervous person and of top of that I have this habit of wanting to fix things right in the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend and I have an explosive relationship? Is this normal?

Since day one we have had a very strong connection and attraction to each other. We started off as friends with benefits but then got possessive over each other and became an official couple. We both love each other very...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can a relationship work if one person is still getting over their ex?

I've been dating my girlfriend for 8 months now. We started slow due to her heartbreak but I called it off after 5 months because I needed more commitment. She agreed so we've been an 'official' couple for 3 months now. I...

fastflyer

Xper 4 Age: 33

Should I break up with my boyfriend for lying about his ex?

Last night I caught my boyfriend of only 3 weeks in a lie. We started dating in January but only became an official couple in March. When I first started dating him, I asked him when did his last relationship end. He told...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he just being a good friend or am I missing some major signs?

I have known this guy for about 3 years but recently, we've grown to be very close friends. I hang out with a lot of guys because I'm comfortable with them but for some reason, all of my friends think that this guy and I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, Do you think he wants a serious relationship? Why hasn't he asked me to officially be his girlfriend?

Have been friends with this guy on snapchat for close to 3 years. Have been seriously talking since October, hanging out since late November. We text/snap everyday. We have the same interests/hobbies. He took me on a 6...

Anonymous

(30-35)