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First we live together with our three girls, and have been together over a year.

Recently I went back to work, and she is home looking for a new job with lots of time on her hands.

She recently lost thirty pounds (20 of which she gained when we got together) and looks better than she has in years (44 years old).

Since returning to work she is MIA every morning. Says errands or house work. Stuff is done but, she has lots of time beyond that.

Today i came home early and saw her gym outfit. She is going in yoga pants and sports bra with a tank that isn't there and five inches of cleavage (fake boobs). I'm like, normally I don't say anything, but that outfit makes me uncomfortable. You wearing it to the gym, sorry, but guys will roll up on you and it looks like you want attention.

Says she's always wore this stuff when she's in shape. When we went to the gym together before she rolled in a tshirt or something with coverage (but heavier).

She has a history of cheating (not on me) and some of those were gym guys (most were not, and she cheated a lot on most of her guys). Says she's over that and loves me and is totally happy.

To me it it could be she feels she looks good again and is happy wearing stuff she's always worn. But that stuff lead to guys hitting on her and her cheating. she's been more lovey when I get home too, which is sometimes a sign.

She also more more interested in my schedule lately and when I'll be home (which alone, whatever)

Am I freaking out over nothing? Does she just want attention or should I be more worried cause she's been going mia here and there? If she isn't cheating it seems like she is looking to me...

Thanks for the long read!

We are living in different cities at this moment so we dont go to gym together at this time. 8 months ago my legs were stronger by about 20% in the gym so not a huge advantage. On a pound for pound body weight basis her legs were sightly stronger. My Upper body is multiple times stronger but this is a Indian leg wrestle and also another type sittng face to face on chair to see who's legs can move the others more inward or outward. I won 4 out of 4 of our last leg wrestle matches 8 months ago but each consecutive match was tougher to win. She seemed to have better strength stamina even then. Her upper thighs are bigger then mine and looks now to have more muscle then before. I am bigger at the knee area bone structure though. She as been training heavy on legs past 8 months and I had hip injuries flare up so not able to train legs heavy for two years now. She is confident she will win this time and bragging before hand.