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Being single is becoming more and more common because relationships are not as stable as they used to be. A lot of people, especially young people, have some form of social media. Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, even G@G, and even if they didn't, there's still the ever popular texting.

And we see today so many people, both male and female, wanting to go through one another' messages, questioning why they liked this status, why are you texting a person so often or left a compliment on another person's selfie. And sometimes it's cheating. Now, cheating isn't something new, but it's much easier to trace and discover when it's written down and easily accessed across the internet and in text messages. This would be the EXPOSING aspect.

But even if it's not cheating, it can interfere in a relationship. It can cause a partner to become paranoid or even a stalker on some level, especially if the accused isn't doing anything wrong and continues what they're doing. You know, the "Facebook Stalker"! Partners begin going through messages and questioning every bit of activity they see when they're spouse talks to the opposite gender on social media or through texting. This fear and paranoia of infidelity can cause a rift between the two parties and they may split. The distrust one party is feeling from the other may cause them to leave the relationship altogether. This would be the RUINING aspect.

I think everyone can agree that both happen. But, overall, is technology and social media more likely to EXPOSE a relationship for what it really is or ruin it?

Nope, I never cheated nor got cheated on (not that I know).

However, imagine if your spouse said any of these... straight forward:
- In all the time I've been with you I've never felt sexually satisfied
- I kept wondering what's it like being with another man/woman (esp if he/she was a virgin when you met them)
- You're working too much and I have constantly urges for sex when you're not around
- I feel like flirting with the opposite sex and I really don't want to cheat

Or would you rather not want to be told that?

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Should I break up with him?

First off we've been together 10 months. I've been through a lot of pain and tears but I've overlooked it all because I began to love him. We haven't had sex yet. I'm still a virgin and I want to have sex with him but deep down I know he doesn't care about me enough. Recently we discussed how I feared he would have sex with Someone else because he's waiting on me too long. I said I know men have needs and I'm hoping you're not the type of guy to cheat because we aren't having sex. He said I'm not gonna lie , I have thought about it but we are moving towards building a life together so we have bigger fish to fry. He also said he understands why men cheat if they aren't getting any at home or if sex with their spouse isn't good. At first I thought I should have sex to keep him but what if he doesn't even like sex with me and I break my own heart. He then said if u have questions about trusting a person you should just stop dealing with them including if I didn't trust him. The past two weeks I've noticed changes in his behavior. I have a gut feeling he may be considering or already have cheated. I don't wana leave him because I've grown to love him and he has a 5 year old daughter who calls me mom and is attached to me. Should I break up or stay?