Search Results: emotions in dreams

I want to like her. I used to, but then I shut myself down to protect my own feelings since I hurt myself and constantly embarrass myself since forever. Instead, they died, and I wonder if there is anyway I can reconnect and plug my emotions back in "real time"

In "real life" she's leaving on the 23rd of March, and I won't see her for 3 years! I think she's beautiful, and I felt aching and longing strongly for her not 2 months ago, but what happened to that emotion? I talked about her before on this website in the question as the "bombshell blonde" She's nothing short of amazing. I almost don't feel real knowing her, she's that good to be true. Since childhood I put girls with her personality on such a high pedestal, that I never realize that they themselves are normal girls, too, even human. However, there are prettier girls out there, and I know that, there's just no "her"s out there.

I should know my feelings, help me identify them. Love is such an abused word, but what is the real feeling? Is "parting such sweet sorrow"? Or is it healthy to not worry about her? I want to love again. I miss the innocent dreams, either of "damsel in distress" all tied up and I'm the hero she beams at, etc. Childhood had such magic, but now that I'm 22 and without a job, I have nothing to offer in the real world. I'm looking for work, I'm really trying, just not hard enough...She's a close friend, she moved here in 2005 in her freshman year in high school from Mesa, AZ. She's shy by nature, which I find attractive and she has a radiant smile.

So girls, how should men act if your going around the world doing service and that man has opportunities to write you letters-

what is okay to mention to her as far as my feelings go?

can I be her pen pal? How should I write, to make sure she writes back? Is it a good thing for a girl to know that she is missed and cared for? If so, to what extend does it become too desperate or annoying?

I want to miss her PROPERLY. It sounds weird but I feel she needs to know she's valued. You see, she thinks her best friend is prettier than her, but I think it's a tie (or at least the other girl is a not-so-close second to her)

On her service, I can be supportive through sending letters, but not romantic or presumptuous in any way. This leaves me with the question, "okay, here's how I feel about her, how much do I tell her?"

Sometimes my feeling sink deep and swell, other times, like right now as I'm typing this, I miss missing her, which means I don't, and I'm okay with her being gone, but I still want to have an objection inside me somewhere.

So your'e gone and he can write you-

Girls, what do boys do in this situation usually?

Okay, what could they do better?

I left some not-so-good impressions on her so far before she leaves in exactly 3 weeks from today 5/2, she leaves on 5/23 and won't be back until 2015!

I sure hope you guys on this webpage respond, and I hope I'm able to pull through with this.

Without considering other factors (like personality, emotions, intelligence, etc.) on a purely physical level, how attractive do you think you are to men?

I'm God's Gift to Men (There is no man that I want that I can't have, and every one of those men has gladly done more than what I've wanted in an effort to make me his own).

I'm Your Dream Girl (Men that I am very attracted to are also very attracted to me, and are often extremely interested in dating me or making me their girlfriend).

I'm Fairly Noticed (By the end of my lifetime, I'll definitely find a man that I am genuinely attracted to, and who genuinely finds me attractive).

I'm Usually Unnoticed (Men who I am genuinely attracted to are not usually very attracted to me, but men that I'm less attracted to express a fair amount of interest in me).

I'm Generally Unnoticed (Men who I am genuinely attracted to are never attracted to me, and even men that I'm less attracted to rarely express interest in me).

The results of the poll are completely anonymous.

Regardless if you did or did not vote, girls, if you think you have a theory or your own idea as to why either: (i) the general population of women feels this way, or (ii) the general population of men behaves a certain way, please feel free to share.