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Here are some examples of things my ex boyfriend has lied about

1. doing drugs
2. cheating on me and keeping it a secret for a month
3. who he had cheated on me with and how many times
4. telling me he liked me but then saying he was only using me for sex
5. I asked him what he was doing and he said he with his mom, but then his mom asked me if I had heard from him because she hadn't seen him
6. deleting messages
7. instead of confronting me about a problem he has with our relatinship, going to other girls and telling them whats wrong, but to my face acts like nothing is wrong
8. acting one way in person (loving, affectionte) and a completely other way in text (cold, dry)
9. saying he thinks someone is really annoying but then when he says them in person he acts very friendly towards them
10. Going out to eat with other girls and not telling me, so I end up finding out through someone else
11. getting in trouble for drugs
12. whether or not he was high
13. saying he would always love me but then later admitting he only said that to soften the break up
14. saying he wants to see me but when I drive four hours and get there he says he actually didn't want me to and should have told me not to come, then makes me sleep in a cold car while he is at a frat party
15. seeming like he loves hanging out with me but later saying it feels as if nothing is there
16. telling me he was going home but then I got a picture of him at a party
17. drinking alcohol
18. leading me on and then saying he has no feelings
19. taking pictures of me while having sex and not telling me or asking for permission, and denying it when I ask

there are many other things he has a lied about to my knowledge, and im sure there are many im not aware of. can someone like this make a good husband? he's 18, turning 19 soon so it could me immaturity or is it possible this is just his personality?

My boyfriend and I were together for two and a half years. he said I was the love of his life and we were meant for each other and he'd never find another like me. then he cheated on me and lied about it then broke up with me. this all happened nine months ago. He hooked up with another girl a week later. He said he still loved me and that we would get back together eventually.

We stayed in touch since the break up on and off, and hung out a total of 11 times since ending things. the last time we saw each other was about two weeks ago. each time we saw each other it was the same as when we were dating (kissed, cuddled, hugged, flirted, etc.).

now suddenly he says he is done with me for good. he said he had only been using me since the break up and has no feelings for me. he said he doesn't want me in his life or to stay in touch and continue seeing me. that he has moved on and I should do the same.

he says he has a hard time telling me the truth because he doesn't like to hurt my feelings. he said he still cares about me as a person but not how he used to.

is there any way I can get him back or is it too late? I was clingy towards him after the initial break up, but he got over it since we started hanging out again. I am studying abroad now until June. if I go NC now for 4 months or so will this make him miss me? will he ever regret his decision of leaving me?

He blocked me on all social media and has started talking to another girl. he says he likes her a lot, although he has been cheating on her with me for the past 2 months.

I feel like the reason he doesn't want to be with me right now is because he is not looking for a serious relationship, but perhaps down the road he may change his mind when he is looking to settle down.

any insight is appreciated! looking for honest answers! thank you!