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Getting over an ex from 5 years ago?

So I broke up with my ex boyfriend about 5 years ago. We were only together for around a year, but he had a pretty bad temper and was very controlling. Since then I've been with my current boyfriend nearly 3 years, but my...

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(30-35)

Dating

Guys, What do I do? My boyfriend of 5 months (officially) has a crazy girl who won't ex leave us alone. At my breaking point?

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(30-35)

From the beginning; for a year he saw this girl that he worked with in a friends with benefits arrangement. He told her several times he wasn't interested in a relationship with her

From the beginning; for a year he saw this girl that he worked with in a friends with benefits arrangement. He told her several times he wasn't interested in a relationship with her yet she continued to always come over to his house uninvited, cook for him, clean etc. so he ended it but she didn't believe him and became worse. After he tried ending it she befriended all his friends and his family without asking him and got her best friend- which is one of the guys his brother is close to, to move on with them (he lives with his brother) so she could have an excuse to always be over. She literally forced herself into his life.

Now he fully cutt her off last year and started talking to me. Taking me on dates etc. I who had just met him one night at a bar had no idea who she was or anything for the first 7 months of seeing each other casually. He started by befriending me. The whole time, this girl who I had never met was calling him 24/7 telling him that I was using him and I was seeing another guy who was in a relationship and so many awful things about me to him while he was still getting to know me. On the side she was spreading rumors about me to our mutual friends saying I stole her boyfriend and stalking me actively on all my social media writing things about me.

I found out about this 6 months ago after being told by several people various rumors they heard about me slitting around and him paying all my expenses (I'm still a virgin and pay everything myself). So I confronted him because she was also at that point saying they are in love and he was cheating.. Also not true.

This week she took to social media to talk shit about me. He confronted her and she said she would stop, only to resume a minute later now slamming him too. I told him to cutt her off because I am at my limit, block her number etc if he wanted to stay with me. And he did telling her to contact someone else if it was for work.

Now she is saying on social media I used witchcraft to steal him. LOL

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Relationships

Whats going on? Does he like me?

Okay, so I started a new job a little over a month ago, small company, only 8 people in the office, right off the bat my co worker was asking about me and my interests as was the other older guy who works across from me....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I like a girl who is still not over her ex-boyfriend?

Over the past few months I've developed feelings for a girl I’ve met and been friends with for a year or so. I've never had feelings for a girl like this in a very long time and I would really like to be in a relationship...

Ankind

Xper 4 Age: 35

Flirting

girls, i have feelings for a girl... i need advice?

I've come to know this girl, she is a few years older than me but we get on very well. She recently moved to a nearby town and we've become friends. The thing is, over the past few months I've developed feelings for her....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I take her back?

Here is the situation, i use to date this girl 6 months ago, and we broke up because she cheating on me. What happened was that i was in love with her for about a year before we started going out, the reason why it took...

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(30-35)

Here is the situation, i use to date this girl 6 months ago, and we broke up because she cheating on me. What happened was that i was in love with her for about a year before we

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Guys, bfs ex gfs saved games, profiles, and accounts still on his computers and game systems?

So my boyfriend is quite a gamer and uses his electronics a lot. He usually tries to get me to play video games with him he likes or a game by myself. Every single time we play or use one of his gaming systems or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Is this a dumb reason why we broke up?

My ex and I broke up over a month ago because one day he ignored me and I ignored him right back (which was wrong but I'm petty) and later that night he sent me a text saying "so are we done or not because I really don't...

laurasolovely

Xper 4 Age: 28

Break Up & Divorce

Do I overreact?

Sometimes I get sad over things because they hurt my feelings. Which is natural. I broke up with my ex boyfriend yesterday since he did not feel mature or ready to date. I yelled and said some really mean things. In the...

SwanLove

Xper 2 Age: 26

Relationships

When is it appropriate to ask boyfriend to end friendship with an ex?

Been with my guy for four months. I am fully aware of the ex and him being friends. Once a month he buys... let's say gift cards from her for food. Been perfectly okay until this passed weekend. We were cuddled on the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Could my ex boyfriend give me another chance, if he still loves me, and sees that I'm serious about changing?

We dated for two years and had an amazing relationship. We broke up a little over a month ago, I was really bad about the NC thing at first but it's been about two weeks since the last time I contacted him. We spent...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

On the other side: An emotional cheater's perspective

“ If you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second ." - Johnny Depp It's easy to blame the cheater. I was cheated on two...

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Girl's Behavior

Well, we had a misunderstanding, is there a way to come back from this?

Hey all, back again. So run down of my last post: I said that I'm looking to get back with my ex that I had a fair breakup with, but I never took the step to try to get back with her even though we've both said that it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

So my ex for the first time in almost 4 months yesterday?

so me and my ex boyfriend broke up almost 6 months now and haven't seen each other in awhile. yesterday was the first time we've seen each other in almost 4 months. i went to his apartment. it was weird at first cause it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why do people lack so much maturity when it comes to dating?

I was recently dating this girl for a good 3/4 months. So far, everything was good, she made me laugh, she was drop dead gorgeous, and all in all I was getting particularly fond of her. However, a month before we started...

ambientfaults

Xper 6 Age: 30

Girl's Behavior

Why is this girl so confusing?

To clear things up we are ex's, I dated this girl briefly for the summer of 2013, we were together for about 5 months but it wasn't the best time for us both; we rushed things, we had our own separate issues to be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How to get over boyfriends old sex life?

Well this might be really weird but my now bf is someone I have been friends with for about a year, and his gf goes to the same school I go to so I see her often. Thing is when they were dating, she had a loudmouth about...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Anyone else in a relationship where the girl is more aggressive and confrontational than the guy is?

Dating a part time model who is going to the same class. A bit out of my league, a few years older. She’s the type of girl you usually see with rich guys, playas or guys who look like they live in the gym. None of which...

gu6783

Xper 4 Age: 33

Girl's Behavior

My life is really fucked up how can I fix it?

so ill start by saying im faling all my classes, im like 99% sure im dislexic to some degree in math. i struggle in reading. yet on all of my writing tests and prompts im an overatchiever cuz im just natrually a good...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Is an insecurity reason enough to end a relationship? Would you be mad?

Girls, Say you've been in a relationship with a great guy, for over a year. You say he's everything you wanted. You've been thinking about moving in with him, introduced him to your friends & family, & you generally see a...

Anonymous

(36-45)