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Friend A doesn't have many friends. I usually have all the friends. I introduced Friend A to friend B. They've hung out like 3-4 times with me but that's it. They barley have any connection besides me. I stopped being friends with Friend B because I didn't agree with her morals and she never initiated anything with me not ask how I'm doing. I was the only one intiating. I bought her custom made gifts and everything. I started to fade. I slowly stopped talking to her and she never reached out to me once in 4 months span. I admit I got angry and started talking about her to my friends and to Friend A. Friend A who barley knows her knows my situation and knows I don't hang out with her. Moving forward I introduce more of my friends to Friend A and I invite her AND drive her everywhere. I just found out Friend B is going over to Friend A's house. I don't know if this is being silly but I don't like how Friend B can talk to Friend A yet hasn't reached out to me. Also Friend A knows my situation and I'm feeling a bit of sneakiness from her. I have a gut feeling they're speaking ill mannered about me. Im not saying Friend A can't hangout with anyone but she knows what Friend B has done. Also Friend B reaches out to Friend A but I've been friends with her for many years. Im just having a very bad feeling with both of them. What should I do? My other friend told me to slowly cut off my friendship with Friend A because that's not right and to not worry about it and let karma run it's course. Im usually someone that tolerates a lot and gives a lot of chances. But once I get a vibe of no good from someone it's usually 98% right.

Me and 6 other girls have been very bestfriends for 3 years. Lately, one of these girls (J) has been hanging out a lot with different (popular) people, and started ditching us for them. Me and my friends don’t really like them because of the bad stories we’ve heard about them. It started last week last week, I had told my group of friends about a crush of mine. J started becoming friends with him and hanging out with him a lot, while I had a crush on him. Me and my friends all have each others instagram account and use them sometimes. A friend of mine in our group kept getting notifications from J’s account and saw that they were about us, so she read them. In the DM’s J was talking about us really bad and in one of them she told the guy I like that I have a crush on him. She also told the girls she hangs out with a lot that I hate them, which has caused a lot of drama since I have almost all my classes with them. We confronted J about this and she started crying and apologizing. Then the following days she started ignoring us and lying about whether she’d hang out with them or not. She told us she needed space and time, which kind of caught us off guard as she’s the one who hurt us and not the other way around. J told everyone bad things about us, which has led to a lot of people hating me and my friends. The guy I like told everyone I like him and basically everyone hates us. We talked with J again and she told us she was sorry about everything. To me our friendship seems really one-sided at the moment, and my friends kind of “begging” her to come back. My friends and J have decided to have a time out so J can have her “space and time” but I think my friends still want her back in our group. I don’t think I can ever trust her as much as I used to and if our friendship can be the same. Some people say it’s just a phase, and that J is trying to fit in. Does this justify it? If some time has passed, should I (we) forgive her and be best friends with her again?