Search Results: one night stands but no dates

Hi girls,

I am a marijuana / cannabis dealer and I CANNOT stand the fact that people judge me for no reason...

YES, it is illegal where I live but NO, I does not harm people because it is just WEED, it's damn natural and comes from the ground! -.-

Anyways, I'm a sweet guy that takes care of himself, is well educated (college), have a full time dayjob that is very well paid, I go to the gym to stay in shape, I travel (a lot), have a car (off course) and my own house.

I'm romantic, I take care of my loved ones and I RARELY speak about my "business" venture. Friends and family knows I do it, but they don't talk about it, as I don't mention it in any conversation. To them it's not a big deal because they know who I am, they know me, my personality.

The only thing that could be bad into a relationship would be the fact that every day I have to make sales to my clients until 10:30pm. But the rest of the time I could be with her, sleep with her every night, eat dinner every day after work, watch TV until I get called for a "run", etc.

A "run" takes max 15 minutes of my time, it's not something big really...

Oh and anyways, even if people judge dealers, i'd like to add that I do not drink nor smoke AT ALL. I threat the "green" solely as a business venture.

Anyways, tell me what you think... =)

I saw a scene in a tv show where the guy was making out with this girl. The two of them were obviously going to have sex and he was doing it becuase he was very frustrated with something else in his life and was feeling fairly terrible (I forget why). Basically as they were in a room on their own and it looked as if it was about to happen, he changed his mind, realised he was doing it for the wrong reasons and told her "Can we take it slow?".

I'm just curious: if any of you were about to have a one night stand or sex with a guy you haven't known that well or for that long (for whatever reason, no judgement here you'll be glad to hear :) ) and he did that, what would your reaction be? Would you want to date him, just respect him more, not care, be insulted or feel angry?

Here's the scenario:
Sally is an attractive 24 year old woman. She has had 8 sexual partners and is completely free of stds. Her first partner was her childhood sweetheart. They dated for a year before the relationship became sexual. Unfortunately a few months after the relationship became sexual, her "sweetheart" cheated on her. Sally was devastated and ended up having 2 drunken one night stands with guys she met at the club. She then decided that she doesn't want any more one night stands, but she also isn't ready for a relationship. Her next 5 partners were friends with benefits type relationships that lasted 1-3 months each. Then after partner number 8 Sally was starting to want to settle down and this is when met a guy named Bob. Bob is the type of guy Sally could see herself getting married to and as a result she wants to take it slow. She doesn't want to "put out" too soon and risk losing him.

Which guy would you rather be if given the choice?

Guy A: You are guy #8, she doesn't want anything more than friends with benefits with you. She is willing to have sex with you as soon as you get tested. She is not expecting anything from you, nor is she expecting this "relationship" to be permanent. Techically you could try to pursue a serious relationship with her if you want one but she is not expecting it. There are no strings attached.

OR

Guy B:You are Bob. At this point, Sally is tired of casual sex and now desires something serious. She claims to see something special in you that she didn't see in the other guys and as a result she wants to hold off on sex for a couple of months (3-4) so that you can build an emotional connection. She is hoping that you will be the one to propose to her and walk her down the isle. She isn't demanding this obviously but she is kinda hoping/expecting that you will be her last. So technically there are strings attached in this case.

OR

Guy C: You have no interest in Sally on any level.

Please explain.