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I’m 25 and have not ever been in a long term relationship. Yes, I’m shy, but most women I know are able to be approached without putting effort. I’ve been mostly on the apps, I get a lot of messages. However, the people stop messaging after a while. When I make the first move and send messages, the guys either don’t respond after a while, don’t respond period or take forever to respond. Mind you, I’m told I’m pretty but have never been approached by a good guy in person. Most women don’t have to make a move so what gives? I only get noticed by unattractive or short guys, I’m not settling

I'm going to be 25 in 6 months and see so many people from high school popping out kids or settling down, which is great and sometimes I feel I'm behind, but I fear that life will pass me by. I'm fearful to have kids now because you can't undo them once they're here. I'm fearful I will wait too long and won't be able to have kids. I am fearful of the idea of getting married anytime soon, but I'm fearful how I'm single and the clock is ticking. I am fearful that as an only child someday it'll just be me left, but I'm fearful that the family and life I want falls on me. I am fearful that I want more than 1 kid but that's a huge commitment and I don't want it to be too late. I am fearful that everyone else is more successful or happier than I am. I am fearful of knowing 30 is right around the corner but I still feel like a kid. I am fearful that one day I will wake up 45 and resent my whole life and won't get that time back