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I've always been one to advocate for body positivity, but am I really being a hypocrite for wanting a well endowed man?

So let me give a quick background on this subject.

My ex-boyfriend of 6 months was genuinely one of the best men I've ever known. He had a smile that could stop you right in your tracks. A face legit sculpted by the gods. A personality to die for. He is an incredible guy. Not to sound pretentious. Like as if I'm rubbing him In y'alls face. I'm just trying to help u visualize for the sake of my question. His body was perfection. I've never been picky when it came to looking for a guy. As long as we click and get along well that's all that matters.

I never saw a problem with his size till after we broke up. I was just thinking of all the good times we had, while simultaneously eating my feelings away, when I realized something. I never truly got off while we were together. I always came but on my own accord. Dont get me wrong he was a very tinder lover. Alwayse took my needs into consideration. Always pushed me to try new things in, and out, of bed. But his dick never ACTUALLY satisfied me. Granted he was amazing at everything else, just not when it came to using his dick. He was about 5' inches when hard.

So is that me judging him, or simply having a preference. If the relationship hadn't ended I dont think I ever would have said anything. But now that it's over I feel like it's ok to talk about.

Were still best friends. Were still attached at the hip. Were still there for eachother. But I dont feel right keeping it to myself.

Please reframe from leaving hate on this question. Its something that I've wondered about for a while now, and am simply wanting an answer.

Thanks in advance😊