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Here is an overview, for more info read the rest of my questions here:

November 2011: I meet him through a guy that I was interested in (let’s call him Joe for ease)

The rest takes place in 2012:

10/29: He texts me and asks me to hang out.

11/1: We go bowling.

11/3: His best friend (let’s call her Sally)invites me to a game night where I meet the rest of his friends (mostly girls).

11/10: Sally invites the group to Friday’s. He walks me to my car; we have our first kiss.

11/15: While texting I tell him I don’t know much about being in a relationship…later on he tells me that with his two jobs and class he’s not sure he has time to devote to a relationship.

11/17: We talk and he says he wants to keep seeing me but he has limited time and isn’t sure that would be fair to me. We agree to take it slow, that night we make out in his car.

11/23: Sally invited me, him and Joe (the guy who I use to have feelings for) shopping. While driving me home he asks if I still have feelings for Joe, he admits that he had feelings for me last year but felt rejected and now he doesn’t know how he feels about me but wants to keep dating and hopefully find out.

11/24: We have a movie night at my house, make out and somehow Joe comes up and he once again says he doesn’t know how he feels about me.

11/30:Another movie night at my house, same deal but no weird talk this time. He stays until 6AM.

12/7: I make him dinner to congratulate him on a test he did well on, things heat him, we sleep together. (Later found out that he was a virgin, though so was I.) He leaves at 11AM the next morning.

12/12: He disappeared for 5 days until a mutual friend asked him to check on me (I had got a really bad shoulder injury during some family drama) during the conversation he said we moved to fast and he’s still not sure how he feels about me. (This was during the final two weeks of his class and her said he need to focus on that before he could revisit the topic.)

12/15: We are at a bar/club celebrating Sally’s graduation. He didn’t talk to me much despite me standing next to him while the rest of our friends were dancing. About an 2 hours in I danced with another guy. The next afternoon I called and asked if we should just start over and try to get to know each other. He agreed.

12/23:He takes me to lunch.

12/31: He comes for my birthday party, he spends the night (we cuddle, kiss, etc but nothing sexual.)

1/5: I text him and ask him if we could talk in person (I had several positive pregnancy test)

1/6/: I chicken out and instead asks him how he feels about me in which he says “there is no spark” but he really wants to be friends even though he knows it’s going to be difficult.

1/8: I finally tell him before completely having a nervous breakdown to the point where he and my other friends have to take me to the hospital. There I find out something I was taking was giving me fale positives. I told him and that was the last time we spoke.

From Scientific American...

Can heterosexual men and women ever be “just friends”? Few other questions have provoked debates as intense, family dinners as awkward, literature as lurid, or movies as memorable. Still, the question remains unanswered. Daily experience suggests that non-romantic friendships between males and females are not only possible, but common—men and women live, work, and play side-by-side, and generally seem to be able to avoid spontaneously sleeping together. However, the possibility remains that this apparently platonic coexistence is merely a façade, an elaborate dance covering up countless sexual impulses bubbling just beneath the surface.

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