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My guy friend told me him and his friend were going to hangout this weekend and asked me if I wanted to join. He told me he didn't have plans yet but were making them and would text me the plan. This was Thursday. Friday came and I heard nothing. Then Saturday came I heard nothing. Now its Sunday afternoon and still nothing. I don't know the reason for him not contacting me but what should I do with this situation? He definitely should have texted me but didn't. If I just don't text him about this would he just assume I forgot as well or that I didn't care to hangout? If he purposedly flaked on me and I don't text him and just ignore him until he contacts me, what do you think he would think? Would it make him want to contact me? Would it tell him that I won't put up with his flakyness? Its not really playibg mind games or hard to get because he just didn't text me at all. I of course would reply if he texted me. I really like him maybe I seemed too eagar to accept his invite. Anyway, what do y'all think I should do? Thanks

So my guy friend asked me to hangout with his friend this weekend a few days ago and I said I wanted to and for him to let me know what the plans were because he said we were going to do quite a few things. Anyway its Saturday evening and I have yet to hear a word from him about hanging out. I don't know if he decided not to anymore, forgot (be pretty hard to), or just didn't want to hang with me anymore so just didn't say anything, or if he planned on doing this on sun and or Monday because of the holiday. Should I text him and ask if he made any plans? BC I don't want to and then him feel bad about cancel ing (if he did) and then like ask me to come over or something.. Cause I feel like that'd be awkward. Why do y'all think he hasn't contacted me and what should I do? Help thank you so muchh

I met a guy through internet and he and u agreed we should meet. He finally asked me out but went to a businesstrip first and now when he should be back I texted him and he said he is sick...Yeah, he might be. He is kinda shy but this feels like a way to flake. He flaked twice before and I feel kinda annoyed. What the fuck is he doing? Like why say yes or ask me out if he doesn't really wanna meet? And if he really is sick he could have suggested us to meet later... But no. I feel stupid. I put only nice messages to him to get well soon and so on... But he replied with just a thanks.

Sorry, had to vent somewhere...
And if you have any tips (nice ones) please, share them here...
Ps. I am not usually annoyed like this but he really has been behaving like this for too long.
-And he can't be a catfish... so that is not the reason to the behaviour

He is a guy who looks supergood and seems to be a real man. ( I mean a guy who knows what he wants in life and don't act like a creep or a fuckboy, he is a good guy)

This guy is not very flirty to girls and doesn't approach them (or so it seems if you look at his instagram profile)

When I approach him he seems interested:
-Uses emojies
-Writes longer messages
-Asks me questions that aren't just basic "what's up"

When I asked him out he said yes, but got cold feet in the last second. This happened TWICE.

He likes my pics (ONLY the ones where I am in alone/selfies, no other pics) he doesn't seem to like other girls pics nearly at all (I have never seen him like any )

Last time I approaches him HE asked me out himself, but I haven't heard from him now and I don't know if he really wants to meet me or if he is gonna flake again... the date would be after a week or so... I am curious and I wonder if I should bombard him with messages or let him be for a while...

SUOPER Shy guys: HELP ME!!!