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My friends with benefits keeps contacting me. Sending me Christmas wishes through his friends and cousins telling them to ask me to unblock him. I blocked his ass because this nigga has a girlfriend but he told me :'I'm not in love with her. I want her to break up with me. I am in love with you. Honestly the love is dead there. And we are just in it for our son.' They have a son together. And this guy basically told everyone his in love with me. We had a pretty good friends with benefits situation. We didn't have sex much. Sometimes he would just come see me even when my lady flow is in Town. He bought me a gift for my bday and a chocolate when i was on my period as he asked me what do you crave when you on your period but that just happened recently he never done it in the beginning this was before I got a text from her number like just a few weeks before.

Like I trusted this guy so much I confided in him and he was very supportive of me and my business. He would buy things from me to show his support. Liked him.
After the text I got from his girlfriend wishing me so bad on my love life and that she will fight me and she claimed she's his girlfriend And was so rude but I wasn't rude back I just told her to go off on him cause i didn't know his an asshole for lying and cheating and was it really my fault that he cheated on her his the one who lied to us both. So I decided I'm going to leave this toxic situation and I blocked him everywhere his calls, sms's and whatsapp. So now two of his cousins sent me texts like he asked i must unblock him and they not together anymore and his friend texts me too. He wished me happy holidays for the season and that he loves me even though he said that with his clothes on too and during sex. He calls frequently but the calls get blocked automatically.

I don't wanna talk to him but all I can think of is he wants to use me for sex again. And im not going back. Im keeping him blocker but he just can't leave me alone.

I know it's a weird question, and it may appear shallow, but the truth Is another one: i've been with my boyfriend since a pair of months (se were friends before, but he was attracted to me). At first he fell in love with me but i wasn't aesthetically and sexually attracted to him. Then, After a few months, sharing our daily Life, emotions, projects and so on... I started to feel a deep emotional connection and we ended to make sex. Since then, we are engaged... I still feel that connection, even more actually, but there Isn't that pulsional fascination about him. I mean, I don't find him attractive, but I'm attached to him and enjoy the sensual stuff. The idea to leave him Is terrible to me tho. What if it's Just dependence?