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I remember an incident when I was in 7th grade.

I lived in a very hot climate at the time, and everyone wore short-shorts (even though it was technically against dress code). I was a goody two-shoes for a long time and didn’t wear shorts, but finally I gave in and put them on, since nobody else was getting called out.
Feeling much more comfortable, I went to school and avoided a heat stroke! However, halfway through the day an announcement came over the intercom:
”not_a_queen, please report to the office.”
I went, wondering why I was being summoned to the gates of hell (aka the VP’s office).
Apparently, my shorts were “inappropriate,” “distracting,” and “broke the dress code.”
EVERYONE ELSE WORE THOSE SHORTS. SOME WERE SHORTER THAN MINE.
But, because I was not an anorexic stick, I got in trouble. Having an ass is a crime, apparently. I distracted someone (probably a male) to the point that my body had to be covered for his sake—even though it was 110 degrees (Fahrenheit) out and people regularly got heat stroke or other heat-related injuries. I felt ashamed and objectified, and (to this day) I rarely wear shorts outside of my house.

Similar incidents have happened to other girls. Oh, she’s wearing a tank top that bares her shoulders? WHAT A CRIME!! Look, that young woman with a larger cup size and a waist happens to be wearing a tight shirt? GET OUTTA HERE!!!

So, guys, is it really that distracting? Are you unable to learn and function at school if a girl wears form-fitting clothes? Should women have to cover their bodies because you guys just can’t handle it? Isn’t that insulting to both girls and guys?

Food for thought 😋

PLEASE COPY/PASTE/ANSWER QUESTIONS:
#1 Do you want kids?
#2 Would you ever consider adopting a kid? Why?
#3 Do you prefer to adopt a certain ethnicity/race
#4 At what age would you consider adoption?
#5 How many kids would you adopt?
#6 Some years ago, I read that when it comes to a child around ages 2 and up, black children cost the least (around $3k), mixed kids cost mid- range (around $10k), and white kids cost the most (around $20k). I also read that newborns of any ethncity are around $30k+. That said, whats the most you’d spend on adopting a child? And what age do you prefer that child be?
#FeelFreeToList #FamilyForever #BabyFever

MY ANSWERS:
1. Yes I want kids. 2-4 to be exact
2. I would consider adopting a kid...
• If i can't have kids of my own
• If i have all girls or all boys but not 1 of each
• When all my biological kids have gone off to college and i feel lonely and want to start over
3. I do prefer to make the child feel as much as one of my own as i can. That said, I rather adopt a black or mixed raced child to avoid constant questions about whether the child was adopted. If it were up to me, my baby would never know it was adopted... but i can't guarantee that...
4. I would consider adopting around age 31+
5. I would like to adopt 1 girl and 1 boy or one of whatever child i dont already have
6. I’d spend around 10k and under per child, and i prefer to adopt the child age 2 - age 4