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I asked this yesterday and was being told i shouldn't be putting them in competition with eachother and comparing them, by no means am i putting them in competition, basically I've been speaking to both of them and i like both of them a lot and i know carrying on talking to them both isn't fair they're the complete opposite of eachother and i like them both but just can't pick which i would like to take things further with, the blonde girl has a fantastic personality and is really caring and loving towards me, she has a good job and doesn't expect much from me other than affection which i like from girls, the brunette girl also has a golden personality and is really nice and down to earth, i can open up more to the brunette girl because she's more sensitive and likes me talking about my feelings also the brunette girl talks dirty and the blonde girl doesn't like doing that, the brunette girl is at college and has a part time job, im really stuck guys so can you help me out, i will also state im obviously not going to make my final decision based on looks alone its just opinions i want

So i met this girl this past new years and it was probly one of the best new years I've had in a while. she's a friend of one of my close friends from my hometown that i have never met before. she's really sweet, nice, thoughtful and actually went out of the way to show interest in me. Needless to say we spent the majority of the night with eachother hooking up. We parted ways and we met up the next day in town and she slept over. we didn't have sex or anything because she wanted to wait. She lives a little less than 2 hours away from me and we met up for the 3rd time a couple weeks ago because she's going to be working going around the U. S for about 2 1/2 months. We had a really good date and we finally got to have sex. She complained a little about my size but was really into it as if she never had something like that before. Anyway my main question is that i won't see her until the begining of May, maybe sooner if they have a job by me. We talk basically all the time, phone call in the morning and when she finishes work texting when we both can. She talked to me about dating and I said we really should speak about that in person but I want to be exclusive with her. Before I said that thought she kept saying i can "do what i want" so i asked her out of confusion "you would be okay with me having sex and hooking up with other girls"? something I DONT WANT TO DO. and she got really upset and starting crying saying thats not what she wants and she wants me, i calmed her down and told her i really like her i just want to be exclusive and to talk about actually dating in person when she comes back for the summer. The company she works for splits the members into groups and she's in a group with two guys. It makes me feel a little uncomfortable bc im jealous they are with her for like 2 more months. She talks to me everyday and makes a point to, tells me how much she misses and wants to jus be with me, I shouldn't be concerned about the guys right girls?