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Me and my now x-boyfriend (of 2 and a half years) got into a big argument about him not meeting all my family
He thinks im not being serious
he's had 3 previous girlfriends but im the first girl out of all of his exes that he introduced to his WHOLE family

Im his longest relationship too
And he's my longest too

And he's always the one more affectionate and always the one initiating calling every night before bed
And he's always the one talking when we are together
But im quiet person in general
And he wanted to move in together and wake up to me every morning but I couldnt move out because of my situation at the moment
And i have super trust issues and insecurities from my past relationship and then i put it on him
And then he got fed up

So anyway he decided to break up with me because he thinks we are not compatible and lost interest in me
And i was so heartbroken!

I've been there for him all the time though
And supported him
And he has met my parents and siblings
And introduced him to my friends circle when he doesn't have much friends

Then i said "u never appreciated me"
And he said "maybe i never had feelings for you"
That was a stab in my heart.

Can someone really fake a relationship for over 2years?
And never had feelings?

Will my friends with benefits become something more?

- He calls me his girl but introduces me to his mum as his friend & then a girl he brought home, even though we've met before.
- He now calls our "hangouts" "dates" & he pays for everything
- He doesn't like it when other guys flirt with me
- His phone is getting replaced so he gave me 2 ways of contacting him - facebook and temporary number
- He tells me that 2 weeks of not seeing me feels like a lifetime
- He took me back to his but he didn't want to have sex.
- We're super affectionate in public during the day, night & at parties.
- He said that he's physically attracted to me but he's more attracted to me as a whole person.
- When I start treating him like he's my boyfriend e. g. holding him so he wouldn't leave for work, kissing his hands when he's holding me. He called me cute and was smiling
- And one of his favourite ways of having sex is when we go slow, holding each other's hand, looking into each others eyes and kissing.

And the thing is, we were only friends for 1 work shift... But we were always flirting like crazy.

- He calls me his girl but introduces me to his mum as his friend & then a girl he brought home, even though we've met before.
- He now calls our "hangouts" "dates" & he pays for everything
- He doesn't like it when other guys flirt with me
- His phone is getting replaced so he gave me 2 ways of contacting him - facebook and temporary number
- He tells me that 2 weeks of not seeing me feels like a lifetime
- He took me back to his but he didn't want to have sex.
- We're super affectionate in public during the day, night & at parties.
- He said that he's physically attracted to me but he's more attracted to me as a whole person.
- When I start treating him like he's my boyfriend e. g. holding him so he wouldn't leave for work, kissing his hands when he's holding me. He called me cute and was smiling
- And one of his favourite ways of having sex is when we go slow, holding each other's hand, looking into each others eyes and kissing.

And the thing is, we were only friends for 1 work shift... But we were always flirting like crazy.

I've been with him for over 2 years
Things happened between us
We done some hurtful things to one another
We had our ups and downs
But I do really love him
And he says he does too
But I dont believe him...

He does the following:
- he always brings me to his family functions
- im the first girl out of all his ex girlfriends that he introduced to his family
- we see each other once or twice a week.. he always makes time for me
- if his friend invites him to a party or whatever, he wants me to come along too
- he always wants to take selfies together and puts them on his social media (his facebook, instagram) and puts caption like "goin out with this beautiful girl"
- when I stay over for the weekend, we have great sex
- he's very affectionate.. hugging and kissing me all the time
- he holds my hand when we're walking around the mall

But i still think he's cheating on me
Or talking to other girls behind my back
My gut instinct...

Would a guy do all of those things if he's cheating?