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There’s 2 incidents that happened when I was about a few months into my relationship with my boyfriend. I work at a retail store that really pushes us to get people to sign up for the store’s credit card, our jobs depended on it. Anyway, I was walking around the mall to ask people to sign up and I asked this guy. He said he’d sign up for it only because I have a nice body. I thanked him but asked him more questions about where he was from since I lived in this city all of my life and I’ve never seen him anywhere. We chatted about the schools we went to on the way back, and he signed up for the card. He asked for my number and I gave it to him because I wanted to know him more, at the time I didn’t really know why, I was just curious about him. He then said he was going to get some food and I requested to bring me back a milkshake and he did. He did ask if I would do sexual things with him but I declined. He didn’t really respond to my messages, I only sent him a couple of texts. I did find him on social media and we are following each other to this day, but never communicated on there.

The 2nd time was a few months later when I misheard this guy’s last name and thought he said “handsome.” He thought I was complimenting him when I just didn’t hear him. He told me he worked with my sibling later and we exchanged numbers just as a way for me to keep tabs on that sibling (he lies about where he is a lot) and for my boyfriend for later use because he’s going into that same field. We only texted for 2-3 days because he was sending kiss emojis and that made me uncomfortable. He even came by my workplace with snacks even though I told him he didn’t need to. He sent me an extra text before we stopped texting altogether.

When I did try to come clean about it to my boyfriend when it happened, I lied. I said I didn’t give my number to these guys and didn’t take up the milkshake offer just because he allowed his female friend to his room during that time period.

I used to “TALK” To this guy On and off for over 2 years (C) I’ve dated in between as well, I used to vent to him about the break up, we were friends but also flirted and such. anyways, he’s ALWAYS wanted to be official, talked about having a kid, taking care of me someday etc. I didn’t want it at the time for multiple reasons, we ended up stop talking for something, but kinda got to talking again every now and again we have social media’s & he’d always watch my stories ( always the first one to see) well a few months ago I got a boyfriend , and I post him and things we do and I’m always talking about him. (C) tells me “I give you guys 2 years till it’s over” . Everytime we talk he mentions how I was such a “b” to him & disrespectful and rude. like if I was this bad why he wanted to be with me? I’ve asked him before & he’d always say “that’s how love works sometimes “. I know if I wanted him he’d be ready to be with me. He’s always throwing things in my face and saying how petty I WAS. And if I did before, it’s the PAST. He says if I changed then “congrats , but I’m not his headache anymore” . it’s almost like he wants me to be toxic to my boyfriend because I was to HIM once upon a time. Or he wants to put it in my head like I’m some horrible person so that I doubt myself. I just like to be on good terms but he’s always being negative bringing up things I’ve done, or trying to make me feel bad. sometimes we talk & he’ll say things like “how come you do these things with him & didn’t want these things with me” or he says things like” were you ever bored of me” . he’s told me he still loved me before , but yesterday he told me that he cares about a few people, and cares about me but if he seen me get hit by a bus he wouldn’t be phased he’d just keep it moving. Like wtf? Who says that. by the way My boyfriend doesn’t mind because he knows he can trust me & I’d never do anything to hurt him. my question is why does he try to make me seem like such a HORRIBLE person?