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I've only been talking to him for a couple days, we met online.
We have a lot in common
He has most of the things I was looking for in a guy.
He's younger than me
He said I was the only girl that made it pass hows it going.
He has this cute personality\calls me dork\butthead
He said he's very affectionate
He has been calling be cute a lot and about kissing each other
He said he is willing to go at my pace and all he wants is for me to be comfortable
He's an emotional\sensitive guy.
He has said that I'd make a good girlfriend
We already set up a date to meet in a couple weeks.
We ask each other questions and he says like a lot
We've got to know each other a bit.
We seem to agree on some things.
He talked about his ex a lot (I did ask one question about her) and then I asked him to not talk as much about his ex and he was understanding and said he will, which he has.

my ex boyfriend and I got back together after breaking up for a bit. When we got back together I found out that he had hung out with a girl that he was friends with while we weren't dating. Ok cool, he was single.. but then reading further into it she was totally flirting with him through text. he didn't really respond in that way) She asked if he wanted to have a slumber party & he didn't respond in a yes or no way. He pretty much said something about her movie crew (she does set decorating) and then she asked him again a few days later in a different way, but calling it a pajama party. He said yes that time, and told me she wasn't being serious. Lol.

Apparently he forgot we ever had an issue with them being friends and he tells me he might hit her up to hang out again once we were back together.. like wtf?
I asked him if I could meet her, as she was pretty flirty. I wanted to feel their vibe. He said yes.. I reach out to her and instead of responding to me she tells my boyfriend I'm crazy. She ends up calling him soon after that and asks him to hang out. He's talking to her like yeah let me know we can grab lunch. I tell him to tell her I say hi. He does and when they hang up I told him I didn't want them hanging out alone if I couldn't meet her. He sahs
nothing happened with her but I don't know.

im thinking she probably would'nt have told my boyfriend that she thought I was crazy if they slept together right?

My ex broke things off while he was on vacation. He texted said we need to talk then called & said that text was a “slip”. He said he wasn’t feeling it anymore & things weren’t progressing. After asking why, he said “you wanna know the truth? I never developed feelings for you since day 1.” So for 6 months he never developed feelings. The convo ended abruptly, but instead of calling back or seeing me in person... he ghosted me.

when we dated, everything was too perfect. We clicked like it was meant to be. We ignored the 10 year gap because it felt like we were meant to be. He wrote me paragraphs how he’s crazy about me, cares about me to the moon and back, how I’ll be his wife, this and that. He spent $400 on flowers for Vday- basically the way he acted & things he said, made me build fantasies about the future of us. He got a new house and I decorated it all. He introduced me to his entire family, his close friends and their families. He called me his fiancé. Literally eveything was going perfect and he always told me he’s going to fight for me and stay by my side no matter what happens because we are meant to be and no other man will ever have me. From all the good morning baby texts to goodnight baby texts to Random i miss you and I’m thinking about you texts to other texts and convos, I was happy and assured he was the one according to how he acted with me.

We had arguments but resolved them and never stayed mad. There were red flags though. he was emotionally and verbally abusive but was blinded by how much I fell for him. He told me things any woman would be upset about but i ignored. I thought I was overthinking or he gave an explanation. He slowly stopped to care, he didn’t compliment me, made me feel I wasn’t good enough for him. The make outs, touching, hugging stopped. He was always on his phone. I became cold towards him due to his behavior because he was acting cold & rude with me.

Can you be friends with an ex STRAIGHT after a break up?
E. g. after a week, still messaging/calling each other and hanging out with each other