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This girl was mad at me for a few weeks after I was a jerk to her friends. One night I got drunk and drunk texted her that she was important to me and that I really cared, and wanted to explain myself but if she wouldn't respond, I'd take the hint that she didn't like me.

Naturally she ignored the text.

I acted like a man whore the next few weeks. After 6 weeks of no contact, a funny thing happened!

I was helping to clear out a party and saw her friends leave without her.. Which is strange because they are inseparable when they are out at night. A few minutes pass and I walk into the kitchen where my girl is standing alone. In retrospect I think she was waiting for me, because we made instant eye contact. I stepped around her and told everyone to leave the party. I imagine she felt bad that I ignored her, but I had no idea she was trying to talk!

She walks past me to leave, putting her hand only arm as she goes.

A week passes and with the help of GAG I decide to text her. I invite her out to a party, but she cutely declines because it is Monday night. She says enough that I feel she's not brushing me off, so we converse and tease each other. At first she responds within 5 minutes, then within 20..

I show her a project of mine online. She's pretty thrilled when I tell her about a party I will have in three weeks

"wow that is amazing. Brilliant even. And you had better send me an invitation."

I tease her "or else what"

She responds " or else shtt is going to hit da fan!"

She is being cute, but after a few days and only a few texts back and forth, there is some weirdness. I don't ask direct questions always, but she will take hours to respond, or sometimes won't for 15+ hrs and I'll have to double-text her.. But then I get a response, just it comes like 40 min later.

She is definitely enthusiastic and flirting.. But I don't know why she's not responding quickly all of a sudden or asking more questions.

When we are in person, there is definite sexual tension.. But she is a very shy and reserved girl, I would guess not experienced sexually, and from what I can tell very "traditional" in expecting me to be the "hunter" and initiator of all contact.

Bare in mind also that she was my date to a formal dinner and in better times she would be eying me down in bars.

Can you guys offer me any advice or insight? Is she just looking for me to make a more forward move?

This girl was mad at me for a few weeks after I was a jerk to her friends. One night I got drunk and drunk texted her that she was important to me and that I really cared, and wanted to explain myself but if she wouldn't respond, I'd take the hint that she didn't like me.

Naturally she ignored the text.

I acted like a man whore the next few weeks. After 6 weeks of no contact, a funny thing happened!

I was helping to clear out a party and saw her friends leave without her.. Which is strange because they are inseparable when they are out at night. A few minutes pass and I walk into the kitchen where my girl is standing alone. In retrospect I think she was waiting for me, because we made instant eye contact. I stepped around her and told everyone to leave the party. I imagine she felt bad that I ignored her, but I had no idea she was trying to talk!

She walks past me to leave, putting her hand only arm as she goes.

A week passes and with the help of GAG I decide to text her. I invite her out to a party, but she cutely declines because it is Monday night. She says enough that I feel she's not brushing me off, so we converse and tease each other. At first she responds within 5 minutes, then within 20..

I show her a project of mine online. She's pretty thrilled when I tell her about a party I will have in three weeks

"wow that is amazing. Brilliant even. And you had better send me an invitation."

I tease her "or else what"

She responds " or else shtt is going to hit da fan!"

She is being cute, but after a few days and only a few texts back and forth, there is some weirdness. I don't ask direct questions always, but she will take hours to respond, or sometimes won't for 15+ hrs and I'll have to doubletext her.. But then I get a response, just it comes like 40 min later.

She is definitely enusiastic and flirting.. But I don't know why she's not responding quickly all of a sudden or asking more questions.

When we are in person, there is definite sexual tension.. But she is a very shy and reserved girl, I would guess not experienced sexually, and from what I can tell very "traditional" in expecting me to be the "hunter" and initiator of all contact.

Bare in mind also that she was my date to a formal dinner and in better times she would be eying me down in bars.

Can you guys offer me any advice or insight? Is she just looking for me to make a more forward move?