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I was speaking with someone from tinder, we spoke on the phone earlier this week for a few hours and played ps4 on Thursday. He’s been texting consistently up until today. On Wed, I told him I was available to play, there wasn’t a set time but he kept me waiting for 3 hrs. He apologized & even had his friend message me to explain. Apparently monopoly went longer than expected.

Things were going well in my opinion, yesterday he asked if I enjoy cuddling while watching a movie. He said it was a general statement & I think he was under the impression that I thought he was flirting. Then he was defensive, saying we barely know each other & wouldn’t ask that. His tone turned me off & I removed him from IG & Snapchat.

He msgs me shortly on PlayStation, asking why I removed him & said he wasn’t being defensive. Asking what he did wrong now & wanted to clear the air. I msged him this morning back but he’s online playing and hasn’t responded. He was flirty earlier in the week then yesterday was defensive & now ghosting me. If I don’t hear back from him tomorrow, I am blocking him from ever contacting me again on any platform.

Ok so I think I know what I should be doing here but I want some other perspectives. Guy 1 is a guy I work with, guy 2 is his best friend since kindergarten. I live in a small town, otherwise I probably wouldn't have found myself in this situation.

So guy 1, when we 1st started working together, was very flirty and obvious he had an interest in me, even tho he had a girlfriend at the time. Shortly after guy 2 added me on fb, anyways later finding out they are friends. So after awhile with guy 1 I backed off, since he had a girlfriend. I didn't want to get in the middle.

Then one day guy 2 messages me, we talk, he mentions how I work with guy 1. So it's not like he's unaware of that we all know each other. So me and guy 2 talk for a month or so before we finally hang out in person one time, we just watched a movie together nothing else. But we have exchanged nudes and such, ik ik it's dumb.

Well one day guy 1 mentions he's no longer with his girlfriend and next thing I know we're kissing, and months later we've had sex. So basically I'm still talking to this one guy, not like very deep convos or anything, so it's not like this is something that would break his heart. But now he's wanting to hangout again.

Do I tell him what's going on? Or just cut off contact? Or even just hang out anyways, it's my body and who I've been with is not his business? Please help me I'm so all over about this I just need some sound advice. So please explain your reasons. And I'm leaving a lot of info out, only cause I don't feel like writing a book on this haha

Now, before I start, I have no idea whether I am right or if I'm overthinking, but if you believe I may be overthinking, what are some ways I can stop?
I've been friends with this guy for a long time now, roughly about 7 months. The only thing is, it's a long distance sort of thing so we don't see each other all that much. 2 weeks ago, I found out he had feelings for me which was amazing because now I know the feelings are mutual (or they at least WERE at some point) and he makes me so happy.

Somewhere between when I found out he liked me and now, he seems to have changed (or at least I feel like he has). He doesn't initiate any of the flirting that often, and he doesn't seem to laugh as much as he does. But maybe there's just nothing to laugh at in our conversations lol. He still messages me everyday, but then in the middle of the chat he'll leave me on read, mostly because he's busy I assume. Although he's done this all throughout the time we've been talking and it's never affected me as much as it is now.

He has never really been the lovey dovey super flirty type, although he still did flirt a bit. I guess he still does sometimes, it just doesn't feel the same. Maybe it's just because it's been long enough now and he doesn't feel the need to always flirt, he's just content with us talking.
So, do you think I'm overthinking or might he have lost feelings? If I'm overthinking, how do I stop?