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There's a guy at my college, but I can't tell if he's interested or not.

I talked to his roommate one night at the cafe and he said how they have a competition to see who can sexile each other the most, and this guy says he wants to win by double digits. It may just be a college guy thing, but he seems like a manwhore. My friends say to just be careful because even though he's a manwhore he may also be nice.

When I was walking to class, he came up next to me and we started talking; if it were me I wouldn't make the effort to catch up to someone to talk, but maybe I'm just lazy. Whenever I see him out around campus he always says hey or talks to me about something we texted about too.

When we text, it's not 24/7, but we respond as soon as we can, so it's not like we ignore each other or are constantly talking. Also, one time I forgot to text back at like an hour later he texted me a random question like "did you ever get to go sailing today?" so I guess he wants to talk to me. He does the smileys and sh*t too.

We were talking about music and I told him how I hadn't found the pianos on campus yet and he said he could show me sometime.

He doesn't text first, but once we start talking he seems genuinely interested (i.e. he texts about as much as I do, and not one word answers). The one time he texted first was because I was down at the waterfront and said hi to my friend who was sitting across from him at a picnic table and basically ignored him (it didn't occur to me that it was him, I was really busy and it just didn't register) so he texted me later that day and was like "I saw you at the waterfront! you didn't say hi to me".

He's never asked me to hang out, and I know the whole guy thing with "if he wants to make it happen, he will." which is another reason why I'm thinking about just letting it go.

He's also really busy, he's on the school search and rescue team so he's on duty often, and I'm tired of this not being able to tell if he's into me or not, so I'm kind of debating whether or not to cut my losses and move on.

I met this really nice guy. At first, he was so nice that I was suspicious. He bought my jewelery the 2nd week we were dating, talked about what kind of wife/number of children he wanted the first weekend we dated etc.

He basically really freaked me out and I sort of stepped back from the relationship a bit. We sort of rushed into things in general. I trusted him and on the first date I spent the night with him... before our first date we stayed up all night on the phone and never ran out of things to talk about. I'm not sure what happened but everything just felt awkward. He sort of freaked me out the 1st night we were in bed together (we didn't have sex)... but he turned out to be uber animalistic and controlling (something I wasn't used to!) I started to think he was this crazy control freak.

Eventually, he told me he didn't get my sense of humor and couldn't tell when I was kidding. It was only the 4th week we were dating so I figured there was hope we'd change. Things were up and down from there... some days were awesome and others we didn't have much to say. After a month and a half I finally opened up to him and felt comfortable around him.

Unfortunately, I had been suspicious of his motives and I complained a lot about my looks... I was worried we didn't have much to talk about so I tried to talk to him about everything.

It was bad. Really bad. I knew it and I wasn't sure what to do. A week before he broke up with me he invited me to go to his parents... One day he suddenly showed up on my campus after I had been really upset with my future goals the night before etc... he said I was almost the one, but not quite... and that he just wasn't feeling it anymore. I said we should take more time since it had only been a month and a half. He was starting a job and said he'd have less time and that I deserved more.

Fast forward 2 months... got in contact with him because I wanted my stuff back. Turns out he tossed some of it, but oddly enough he still has my toothbrush? My guy friend said that's a hint he's still attached to me. The ex is now re-buying the stuff of mine that he threw away. Keep in mind, he's SUPER nice so he might just be doing this to be nice... but I'm a little suspicious. I find that if I ask him q's on fb he answers, but if I just talk about random stuff in my life he doesn't reply. Is there any chance of getting this guy back at all? Anything I can do? Is it worth trying?

I have to say, this man changed my life. I've never been happier in my life since I met him. I feel like my whole worldview has changed. I'm so much more thankful. I complain so much less. I'm less stressed. Oddly enough everything he taught me about life stuck with me after we broke up. He is the most incredible person I know. If I can't date him, he is absolutely someone I'd like to have just as a friend. I didn't even know that I was insecure until I met him... and now I KNOW I am loveable and valuable. He's awesome. I want to give him the world.