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I'm a bartender (18). What do you think of this...

This cute guy (24ish) always says how I'm the nicest barmaid (he keeps on saying it lol!), that I'm "too nice for this place (my bar)".
Tonight he hugged me for no reason as I was walking to collect some glasses, it was really awkward, he leaned in and I was sort of reluctant because I smelled of sweat and beer haha. Not good. And then he was like to me and my boss that I'm so nice and the politest barmaid. I had to work so I walked off but he was still talking to my boss about me. Then I served him later on and he was telling his mates how I was the nicest barmaid etc haha, kept on giving me the eye and winking etc... he was definitely flirting. He has also called me "cute" in the past and so "charming!"

This part is hazy because it was so loud but when I was serving him and after he kept saying I was "the nicest barmaid in (city I live)." But I think he said something about me and his friend went, "oh she's 18?" But I can't state that as fact. I also thought he called me hot but as I said it was loud so I can't quote that haha either.

Summary:
-gave me needless hug (5 seconds)
-"nicest barmaid in the city"
-flirty winky smile
-called me "cute"

He flirts with me when he's sober too but when he was drunk tonight, well it was 2x as much

Do you think he finds me attractive atleast?
I must say he was flirting with a lot of women haha, he is a flirt but, yeah what do you think?
Do you think I should add him on Facebook? I have his sister?

I had an ex, we were together for 1.5 years, the .5 long distance because I moved to another country.

I recently got close with one of his friends - I've know the guy from my ex, and he's a really good guy. We share the same values, and he has the characteristics I want in a boyfriend (honesty, humor, etc.)

We got really close really quick, even though we were long distance. We chatted all day, snap chatted, and Skyped (up to an hour). He said things like "You're beautiful" and "You make me happy too" and made plans for us to go somewhere when we got back, wherever I wanted, anytime I wanted.

Suddenly he tells me that we can't chat anymore, because he's busy for a national exam coming up, we're long distance, and my ex.

I asked him about how he felt about us and he said to me "I like you, but as a friend, not a girlfriend. I'm so so sorry if I've seemed like I'm playing with you. I'm telling you while we haven't gone too far. I'm confused, it's my fault. I know your ex isn't good for you, but at the moment, I'm not good for you either, I can't care for others and we're long distance. I really want us to be friends and not enemies" but he also said "I've never been this close with a girl, and I've never felt this comfortable with a girl"

I sent him a birthday present that's still on the way from when we were close.
I made him a digital portrait, which he made his profile picture and then his sister and her friend commented saying "wink wink you know that i know" and he told his sister "why did you tell?" my ex also commented saying "hey your girlfriend is looking for you" and he coldly brushed him off (he doesn't have girlfriend)

We chat sometimes, usually I initiate but he has too, he opens up about his day & feelings, but it's rarer and it's cut off suddenly and hot and cold, but we've just made plans to have lunch together and to have him teach me how to play the ukulele.

I don't get how he feels - please help me. Sorry for the long post!

I broke up with my ex 6 months ago. We were together for 1,5 years and recently in an LDR since I moved to a different country.

I recently started talking with one of my ex's friends (not extremely close, but they are friends) and we've known each other for a long time - his (the guy) sister used to be my senior in a club we went to together.

We got really close really fast, even though we were long distance. We chatted the whole day long (with intervals because we are both quite busy) and snapchatted and Skyped (nearly up to an hour) and he told me things like "you're beautiful" and made plans with me for when I got back.

Then suddenly he tells me that he can't chat with me anymore, and that he's confused because:
1. It's long distance
2. He knows my ex
3. He has a really crucial national exam coming up April next year.
He said that I'm the first girl that's made him confused like this, and that I make him really comfortable - he even said he's never been this close with a girl.

Then when I asked him how he felt about us, he said that "I like you, but as a friend, not a girlfriend. I'm so so sorry if I've seemed like I'm playing with you. I'm telling you while we haven't gone too far. I'm confused, it's my fault. I know your ex isn't good for you, but at the moment, I'm not good for you either, I can't care for others and we're long distance. I really want us to be friends and not enemies"

And then I made him a portrait (and sent him a birthday present which is on the way for his birthday on the 24th) and his sister and her friend started commenting going like "wink wink you know that i know" and he said "why did you tell?"

We chat sometimes, he opens up about his day & feelings (usually when I ask), but it's rarer and it's cut off suddenly and hot and cold, but we've just made plans to have lunch together and to have him teach me how to play the ukulele.

I don't get how he feels - please help me. Sorry for the long post!

So I broke up with my ex 6 months ago (we were together for 1,5 years and recently in an LDR since I moved to a different country)

I recently started talking with one of my ex's friends (not extremely close, but they are friends) and we've known each other for a long time - his (the guy) sister used to be my senior in a club we went to together.

We got really close really fast, even though we were long distance. We chatted the whole day long (with intervals because we are both quite busy) and snapchatted and Skyped (nearly up to an hour) and he told me things like "you're beautiful" and made plans with me for when I got back.

Then suddenly he tells me that he can't chat with me anymore, and that he's confused because:
1. It's long distance
2. He knows my ex
3. He has a really crucial national exam coming up April next year.
He said that I'm the first girl that's made him confused like this, and that I make him really comfortable - he even said he's never been this close with a girl.

Then when I asked him how he felt about us, he said that "I like you, but as a friend, not a girlfriend. I'm so so sorry if I've seemed like I'm playing with you. I'm telling you while we haven't gone too far. I'm confused, it's my fault. I know your ex isn't good for you, but at the moment, I'm not good for you either, I can't care for others and we're long distance. I really want us to be friends and not enemies"

And then I made him a portrait (and previously sent him a birthday present which is on the way for his birthday on the 24th) and his sister and her friend started commenting going like "wink wink you know that i know" and he said "why did you tell?"

We chat sometimes, he opens up about his day & feelings when I ask, but it's rarer and it's cut off suddenly and hot and cold, but we've just made plans to have lunch together and to have him teach me how to play the ukulele.

I don't get how he feels - please help me. Sorry for the long post!