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I keep seeing Mulatto/Brown latinas, ethic latinas, native American latinas and HOARDS of black women putting "caucasian" as their race on different dating sites. I've asked a few of them and the ones that respond say it's because so many white guys filter their searches for white women.

My questions is WHY DO YOU FEEL YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE WITH A WHITE GUY WHO WANTS WHITE GIRLS? And don't give me the horseshit about some latinos being white. I'm talking about BROWN Latinas and Black women who do this shit.

What works? Am I out of touch? Tinder? Bumble? Should I DM people on Instagram?

I've personally used some online dating sites and I don't DM people on Instagram (I have a belief that this is very thirsty behavior and I shouldn't do it. I had a pretty hot girlfriend up until recently and her DMs were constantly full of guys trying to hit on her and I got the idea that this is futile and low-value. If this is not true, tell me why). Haven't had much results at all this way though, so I've focused on meeting people in real life. This has worked just ok and it's getting better slow and steady (I WANT TO MEET GREAT GIRLS NOW, WAAAHHH 👶) but I can't help feeling like I just don't know how to online date well enough and I'm missing out. I feel that I'm enough of a man and there's no reason why I shouldn't have more and better options. HELP!

Guys, where/ how have you had the best success?

Girls, how can I best reach out? Why?