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I met this guy last week who's friends with my friend's friend and he seemed really sweet and we all hung out as a group. Then today, I was supposed to meet up with my friend to practice our theatre but she was hanging out with him and the other guys we're friends with. So he called on her phone to tell me where they were but I didn't know it was him since he playfully changed his voice, and when I entered the room he told me he volunteered to call me, and then we were talking and joking around until I had to go to theatre but we were all going to go to get something to eat after. And his friend was like "I'll have your friend text me since I don't have your number" and I'm like "Oh yeah none of you have my number." and then the guy I like was like "Yeah, I don't have it." and I'm like "Do you want it?" and he said "yeah, sure" shyly. And then he texted me like the minute I left and he texted me all through theatre, and was talking about teaching me how to skateboard. And then I went to go meet up with him and the other guys and my friend completely ditched me along the way to meet up with them at school library and drove over herself when I called her, so I asked my crush for a ride and he said "Yes, of course." And while we were walking out to his car he was showing me tricks on his skateboard. And then when we got in his car he helped me with the seatbelt since it's kinda weird and his arm brushed up against my stomach area when he reached over me to get half of the seatbelt. And then he held the door open for me to the restaurant. Also, while we were all in a group I was sitting with the girls and he was sitting a little bit farther with some of the guys, he kept glancing at me smiling and then he was talking to one of his friends and then they both looked over at me smiling. And his friend asked how long are we all staying and I said I had to leave and 7 and then my crush said "I'll stay until 7 then" Then when he left he highfived all the other guys

I don't know about you, but I take this very seriously. Lets just be real: there are far too many self-absorbed, tacky, tactless, grimy, sleazy guys and gals out there who will abandon all sense of integrity to snatch someone away from their significant other. It happens ALL the time. Some people really just have no moral compass or a very weak moral compass and they don't mind decreasing the good in them so long as it means getting the one they want. As long as you have a loyal, faithful significant other who respects your feelings and values the relationship, no common sleazy jerk is just going to be able to snatch them away. However, I think it's very important that the significant other boldly makes it clear that said-Skank does not have a chance and their sleazy advances will not be tolerated so they should give up hope.

Now, I may be biased because I am so incredibly loyal to a fault. I won't even acknowledge my attraction to another guy out of pure respect and honor for my man's feelings. When guys hit on me, I not only turn them down and tell them I have a boyfriend, but I give non-verbal queues with my eyes, facial expression, and tone of voice expressing that they will not be getting me and no further attempts will be tolerated. I'd like for my boyfriend to do the same. I don't like that he indirectly gives the girl hope by not boldly, blatantly letting her know that he is taken and the disrespect of her being flirty or showing further interest will not be tolerated. When he doesn't demonstrate that behavior, it makes me very angry with him. Is that unreasonable? What can I say to let him know that it's not okay? Or do you think it's okay for him to respond to them like that?

What are your thoughts on this post? Any personal experiences?