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Keep in mind, this is the same boyfriend who is getting a second chance after doing a bunch of sneaky, shady, sluttish BS. It's a long story, but the gyst of it is that I got screwed over and shitted all on for about a year being loyal to him while he dealt with his commitment phobia. We broke up for a bit where we still acted like a couple and I simply requested that he let me know if he met someone else. He told me that he hadn't and I later found out (not through him being honest) that he had met some girl at that place, my favorite club, behind my back. It was most likley one of the nights I wanted to go out dancing with him and he went out with his friends. So it's a sensitive spot for me, him going out with his friends to that place because it created a history with another female.

Anyway, fastfoward... he told me we would go dancing last Saturday. Apparently, he forgot about it and made plans to go out with his boys tonight before he goes out of town. He has a surprised planned for me tomorrow so I bit my tongue, swallowed my pride, and ignored how irritating that is. I didn't want to sound spoiled, rude, or bratty. Then I text him asking if he's home because I wanted to have some pillow talk. He told me he's at my favorite spot with my friend. I'm pissed and very annoyed. It's so irritating for him to blow me off to go to my favorite spot with his dudes knowing he has a history of whoring around there and letting females flirt with him and come onto him. Is this wrong of me?