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My sister was telling me about this tonight. My sister is a bit of a stuck up bitch, if I'm honest, but I'm wondering if she's right about this. I'm paraphrasing, but she basically said that women will sometimes flirt with and date guys who aren't as desirable as the woman actually wants, to work her way up to guys she actually wants to date.

Think of like flirting with or dating the chubby but nice guy to see if you can land a better guy down the road. I'm a little bit chubby myself, and she was saying I need to lose weight. I hear what she's saying, and I agree that I need to lose weight, but the dudes I see getting girls (girls at least as hot as the kind who show interest in me), are at least as heavy as me. Because of that reason, and some other life experiences that I have had, I just don't think my weight matters that much in dating. I am open to being wrong though.

Do women actually do this? How much of a turn off is it for a guy to have a belly and love handles?

I started talking to a girl online dating we talked for several days texting only. Flirted and talked dirty cyber sexed I said dirty things I want to do to her then a few days later she started sending me pictures of her body she is very overweight. I... just... couldnt.
Some guys would use her for sex maybe and dump her I would never do that to a person if I see no future I vanish like a ghost. 👻
I would feel awful telling her she’s too fat to date I thought just disappearing is the best most humane way what do you think 🙏🏻