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This guy and I started speaking briefly about a month ago and followed each other on Instagram. The same night he followed me, a girl that was following him messages me and wants to know how I know him. She tells that they’re dating and about to become exclusive. And she’s surprised that he’s playing her. Mind you, I’m not too upset that he’s seeing other people because we just started speaking. But this girl is coming across a bit stalkerish.

After she she gives me all the details between them, I message him and ask him if he has a girlfriend. He then blocks me. She tells me that he never planned on meeting up with me and wants to be with her. The girl and I messaged one another for about a week and then concluded by telling me that she’s contemplating on forgiving him.

Later this week, he adds me back on Instagram. Tells me he’s sorry about everything and this girl was lying the whole time. He blocked me because it was “too much drama and he didn’t want to get me involved”. He admits they went out a minimal amount of times and only ever kissed, nothing was in the plan of becoming exclusive because apparently she was crazy. He states he messaged me back in hopes of me giving him a second chance.

My thing is, if he wanted to get to know me, why would be block me to begin with, the second this girl begins a lot of drama? I’m not falling for his crap. Yet, he is constantly messaging me, stating he has proof of everything and wants to take me out in hopes of clearing things up and starting things over.

When we were younger, he suffered a severe injury to his groin, in a accident because of me.

He has forgiven me since, but recently started passive aggressively blaming me because he cannot grow a beard, do as well in sports compared to his peers, mood swings.

He claims its a hormone disorder, although he does not have any evidence to back it up.

He also casually makes remarks about how he is lucky that he does not want to have children in the future. His girlfriend shares his sentiment, and I feel a lot of hostility from her, and they are always using that one incident to blackmail me into doing things for them, like paying for their stuff.

Also, is it true that these problems he faces are because of only having one testicle? Will it be harder for him to have children with only one?

I have tried arguing, but it always ends with him saying that I owe him.