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So, I love this girl and I know she loves me too.. But without caution, I wrote something I didn't mean at all because I wasn't thinking clearly , and now let's just say that I broke her trust for me, even tho I didn't mean any of it...

I tried explaining it to her what actually happened , but I feel that she's just unsure about the Real truth that I'm telling her now.

Best way to explain it; It's like lying (a big heartbreaking lie) to your girlfriend/boyfriend while you're drunk and you're not aware of doing so, but then they find out that you lied, but after you're sober and try to explain everything to them and that you didn't mean any of it, they don't believe you that you were drunk, even tho you didn't mean anything you said , they still took it as unsure that you lied and you explain everything but they still kind of doubt it and are still unsure.. (that was just an example btw).


Now, I sent like over 20 texts trying to cheer her up, trying to tell/explain to her the truth, even also saying things like I'm always there for her, and I love her deeply, etc.

She's been online and active, But still not a single reply to me since she's ignoring me as she's still either unsure or just very upset with me.. we've known each other for over a year with endless conversations to each other with loads of trust ever since , but I deeply messed up this time, and what makes it even worse for my emotions.. is that she said deep and meaningful things about how much she always loved me and how I "broke the trust" and we used to be so close.. (And I didn't even mean anything I said, I just want to press rewind and make this whole misunderstood situation just not even happen)

I'll create a poll below; In your opinions what do you think will happen next...

So me and my Girlfriend have been dating for 3 months, I recently found out she had Chlamydia (I haven’t been checked yet but she was and she obviously passed it on to me). I asked her if she was clean early on in the relationship after the 4th date before we had sex and she said that she got tested with her last boyfriend and she only had one possible partner in between that time (and she made it sound as if the guy she slept with wore protection and didn’t sleep around). I told her today she should probably inform him that he has it and she said she doesn’t know who gave it to her cause there was supposedly multiple men. Now I was initially a little upset cause I trusted her word but now I obviously know she lied to me. Now I also find it weird she got an STI checkup midway through the relationship (2 weeks ago) when she’s had other doctor appointments before that in the relationship (as she had to refill Birth control a couple times and get checked up on for a cold). She also won’t talk about it with me about it (or anything to do with it), when ever I bring it up she gets mad at me and says I don’t deserve to be upset about it.

I do love her and I think I can get over the fact she passed an STI onto me (though I feel shame for myself because I obviously have an STI atm) but I’m mostly disappointed and upset with the fact she lied and I likely caught something because of it. What should I do?

(Also I’ve only ever slept with 1 other woman and got tested fight after and was clean, so I couldn’t had passed it)