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I feel like I haven't had good luck in life in the sex department because I've had more Oral Sex than Intercourse in my past relationships before my wife. I've been with my wife for 10+ years and we've had an amazing sexual relationship.

But why I am disappointed is that she has had only one sex partner before me and she went all the way only once. So that means she's went all the way with two people and I've only went all the way with 1 person.

I feel unluckier than most guys because I've only had intercourse with only one person but had Oral sex with 8 girls before her. If I had intercourse with just one more person to even the score then I wouldn't feel so bad about myself.

I'm thinking about cheating on my wife because women are starting to find me attractive (I'm a late bloomer), I want to even the score with her, and I want to see what intercourse feels like with another girl.

Does intercourse really feel that much different with another girl?

Is cheating worth it?

Some may say this sounds sad, pathetic, it's a trick, blah blah blah, but this is how it is.
I have always been quite shy when it comes to women and don't have great social skills with ones that aren't friends. I never had a female friend that I hung out with until my second year in college. I'm not awkward, just shy. Since then, any close female friend that I have, I have the strong urge to ask to see them naked. I talked to a counselor about it, and she said that since I have little experience in the dating department, I see nudity in a friend as a feeling of trust and intimacy that I don't have in my life.
I won't lie, part of it is sexually-based: they are attractive friends. But it is really about how good of friends they are, and if they did this for me, it would satisfy many needs of closeness that I don't have.
I have asked two close friends about this- one said yes, and did let me see her for a few minutes. She and I are still good friends, and a weight on our friendship has been lifted.
Another friend said yes, then changed her mind back and forth many times, ultimately settling on no. I understood, but afterwards, I did feel hurt, and she felt awkward around me. Now, we aren't friends.
There are others I wish I could ask, but am way too afraid. I could just shut up about it and deal, but then I find myself withdrawing from the friendship anyways, which also hurts.
I know how this must sound to many of you reading this, but it has been something I've been carrying around for years. Should I risk bringing it up with other friends, or just stay quiet and hope we stay friends? I'm also worried they'd think I'm lying about it JUST to see them naked.

So girls, would you ALLOW a good guy friend that you trust see you naked?

Please, only constructive comments.

Is it true that most girls want a rich guy. I'm as some would say well off in the money department but I want a girl to like me for me so I have say anything. Problem is I'm only 5'8" most girls seem to want a guy 6'+. Do I tell the girl what I have hoping that will be the x factor and she will like me or do I wait for a girl that likes me and surprise her? I'm looking for a future wife here. I own my own house free hold so no rent or mortgage have savings rental properties shares in a business plus a good job but still can't get a girl. I'm not ugly looking and go to the gym 3 times per week.. Thank you.