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I liked this guy but it turns out he was shallow, fake and annoying. He had been gossiping about me with his ex, when I found out I first confronted him until she started butting in. Then I told her to fuck off. I barely knew this girl but she tried to come at me for being black. She started tanning, trying to stick out her butt, etc. I paid her no kind, so she started trying to gossip about me so I blocked her ass and him.
I never really met his friends but they assumed I was jealous, fat and ugly because I dont have any photos of me online. I got really sick of her coming at me sideways. She was all like im a model, blonde and blue eyes. I was like so? Im curvy, I have big beautiful curly hair and im nice. She took me saying im curvy as being fat.
Im actually naturally small and petite, but also fit. I work out and eat healthy. She looks like the typical starving, blonde makeup caked model. I dont need to be jealous of a girl built like boy. I have a nice flat stomach, abs, an ass and boobs.
I found out him and his friends do drugs and it became too toxic for me. I live around lots of white people. Lots of white blonde women are the standard of beauty. I didn't care until she tried bullying me. The same girl who said I was hating on her for being white tans her skin until it's orange and wears box braids in her hair. I dont wear weave or do anything to my skin. I dont do anything period that resembles a white girl and I dont look like one. She pissed me off bad.

I used to like this guy. I was always nice to him and talked to him. I'm very introverted and to myself, so it's rare for me to do that.
He was very mean to me when I was nice, so I stopped being nice to him. When I talked about important things he would say I was rambling about nothing. His friend would tell people he didn't have anything in his brain and I needee to shut up and stop thinking so much. I found out about his horrible spending habits, drug abuse and large number of friends. I tried to encourage him to invest his money instead, go to rehab and choose his friends more wisely. He called me a gold digger, controlling and a stalker.

I had enough. He'd tell me he liked me. But I realize I was a toy and entertainment for him. Hed go back and tell his friends I was a stalker and I annoyed him, he didn't want to hang out with me. I confronted him about gossiping about me with his ex and lying about liking me. It was automatically assumed I was jealous of her because she's a model, tall, blonde hair and blue eyes. But I think I'm beautiful no matter what.

I cut him off and never looked back. Ill never know or understand why he did those things, probably will never. I've come to terms with it. he's shallow. He told me he trusted young people because he liked their faces and he spent $1000 on a pair of jeans and popped pills. I dont think he's rich enough to travel, spend that kind of money on clothes, buy drugs and live in San Diego.

Anyways, all his friends wanted to be rich and famous. I started noticing them hanging around rappers with large IG followings. Im assuming they bought expensive clothes to impress those rappers. But I was very done wih him because his friend talked about eating coke.

My dad died from drugs, drinking and partying. It never interested me because I know what it does to your body long term. Exercising, resting and eating healthy is essential.

Anyways, Im glad I cut off fake people.

I've been with my boyfriend for close to two years.
we've broken up once during our relationship, but of course we ended up missing eachother and getting back together. The thing though is, I found out through his ex girlfriend that he slept with her when we were apart. I was mad about that for a while but I forgave him. I also learned that during the time we were apart he hung out with a different girl, one he knew in high school a couple of times. when we got back together, I read messages between them and she was being pretty flirty. no, he didn't really respond back in a flirtatious way,

but in one of the messages she asked him if he wanted to have a sleepover, and he didn't reply with a straight yes or no. then she asked him again if he wanted to have a "pajama party" and he said "yess." When I confronted him about seeing the texts, he said it was all a joke and that he never had a thing with her. I feel paranoid though that he did, even though its been a few years. He couldn't tell me about sleeping with the ex (Shen did) so why would he tell me about the girl if he had slept with her? I know this probably doesn't matter but I have this weird feeling and when I stupidly went to talk to the girl about it, she told my boyfriend that I was crazy. Should I believe him?

I confronted my boyfriends ex of 3 years recently, about something that happened a year ago. When my boyfriend and I split up she had slept with him, and he told her not to tell me. She did, and for a long time I felt angry and bitter and wanted to know why. My boyfriend and I ended up getting back together, but I still had questions for her on my mind. I ended up reaching out and asking if he ever tried to get back with her, after they slept together. She said no, and said that he wasn't a good person and that's why she didn't talk to him because he had hurt her in so many ways and said that he was blocked from her phone and she didn't even have his # anymore. she ended the convo with saying we should grab coffee soon and that was it.

i feel so much better, but I'm scared she may somehow go and tell him we talked. She shared a great distaste for him so I doubt it but still.