Search Results: how far do i pursue her

in the western world men and women are pretty much equal, excluding few things here and there mostly due to genetics or choices... and i have noticed something interesting, men are becoming far smarter and aware when it comes to dating and women... PUA are on the rise, ask any man you know and chaces are he knows a lot of the games women play and ways to counter them, more and more men are demanding women invest in them as much as they invest in women , meaning the fancy first dates and unlimited favors are declining and women are noticing this too...

in my honest opinion i think that womenused to be smarter becasue they had to, men were far stronger and women had to find a way to make up for their lack of strength, so they developed their intillegence to "control" men behind closed doors or in subtle ways , but in this day and age thats no longer a thing, we as a civilization have changed, and chose to treat women and men equally which is good, but some women wanted more, they wanted exactly what men had regardless of whether it suited them or not , and as a result (again my own opinion) men have found themselves in a not so pleasant situation, on the one hand women are equal to them or even overtaking them in some fields, yet they still have to face the same issues when it comes to dating, approaching, building rapport, providing, and pursuing regardless of how humilating or hard it is...

as a results men have started looking for solutions, which meant looking harder, asking more, increasing their knowledge and even use science, in an attempt to fix the new dating issues men have acquired new skills that made their views change and altered their approach to dating, they started demanding things that were usually provided by the man not the woman, and as a result womens dating experience is changing, and I don't know about you my friends but a lot of women are complaining about the lack of gentlemen and nice dates...

Brittany: She slid in my Instagram DMs. I've never had this happen before. She follows a friend of mine, saw my profile, and thought I was sexy. I thought she was spam or a fake profile at first, until I saw her live selfies. She's really beautiful and it's almost too good to be true. I made a list of 7 qualities that I wanted in a woman about four years ago and she meets 6 of those 7. And these aren't just physical features, but they are mental and spiritual too. She's a few states away from me and I won't be in her area for another 2 months. I'm afraid this will end up badly if we stop talking. She's the most risky one, but is closest to my dream woman. Should I pick her?

Alicia: I've known Alicia for 5 years. I used to like her a lot, but she didn't reciprocate the feelings. Her work has led her to travel to different places over the past 3 years, so I haven't seen her very much. However, over the past 3 weeks, I've been running into her quite a bit. At the gym, at the library, downtown, and at the mall. It's almost like she's stalking me. She's been really nice to me whenever we've met up and has been super-flirty over text. I think she might actually want me now. Should I pursue her? She's actually a shorter, less spiritual version of Brittany.

Kim: She's new to my company and very shy. When we first started talking, she told me she was mixed and told me to guess her ethnicities. I guessed correctly on the first try and she was really impressed. After that we started talking about different cultures and having really nerdy conversations. It turns out that we have a lot of the same interests. Recently, our company has been restructuring and she's now a member of two different work groups. Sometimes, she sits in the group next to mines and other times she's further away. When she is near me, we do talk quite a bit. She often tells me how she listens to my group's conversations to see if she likes it and wants to switch. She's 3 years younger. Is she the one?