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A lot of people who are bitter because they don't have sex, can get a partner, get rejected... I find that it's usually themselves, or at least to a degree. They usually lack incredibly in the confidence area and don't take the time to build on it or they expect it to happen overnight. Or that it isn't their fault they don't have any, like it's something you're just born with, no, you develop it. They're entitled, no one HAS to say 'yes' to you. They don't give a reason, other than being nice, being nice doesn't mean that someone should want you. They let their bitterness get in the way of chances that someone MIGHT say yes, if you have an attitude that no one is gonna like you, that effects your results. They blame it on someone being shallow and just liking douchebags/badboys/sluts/bitches/etc. Like, don't people realize that a lot of these go back to self worth? Are some people actually self centered and shallow? Yes, a lot of people are assholes and don't give other's a chance, that's true. But if you blame people for not dating you cause "you're ugly" that goes back to how you view yourself.

self worth is not equal to entitlement. One is knowing your value, the other is THINKING you deserve something for simply existing. (I swear to God, if one of y'all pulls out a literal definition.)

Also, it's okay to feel bad about your love life, but being bitter is a whole 'nother thing.
This is men and women with this mindset. If you get pissy, well, if the shoe fits.

Okay, so hear me out, and do NOT judge.

I am in a happy relationship and am engaged as of Christmas 2017. We have been together for over two years now, and everyone (including myself) thinks that my man and I are perfect for each other.

Now, here's the weird part... He has a best friend that I've never really liked. The friend is constantly whiny and has a bad attitude in life.

Recently, I had a... sex... dream about him. Which was awkward. But now I'm finding myself actually becoming attracted to this friend out of nowhere, and I don't understand how this happened.

What is the best advice for this situation and has this ever happened to any of you before? To go from not liking someone to thinking they're cute and developing a "crush"?

Please don't be rude. I do not plan on leaving my man or cheating, I just really want advice on this and to gear other people's stories and what they did to conquer their feelings/thoughts.

Or, actually, be brutally honest with me. I just want good advice to help me through this very confusing time.