Search Results: lonely at college

I'm feeling pathetic?

I'm in my 3rd year of college and still don't have anyone who I consider my friend. I have many acquaintances but no one I trust to not take advantage of me and no one I know would be there for me in a pinch. That's 20...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Crush on guy is making me depressed. What should I do?

We became friends and I started really liking him. We would text a lot and I thought he liked me but then he started mentioning a long distance girlfriend a few months later. He and I have a ton of classes together and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I feel like I've lost touch with my older brother, and it's making me extremely sad. What should I do?

I'm 21 now and my older brother is 26 and we go to colleges in different states. My mom died when I was young and my dad travels a lot for work. When I was growing up, my brother was the main person I relied on for...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I get my friends to back off of me of my single life?

I've had THREE failed relationships and guys turned me down because of my height (6'1) and size (large built, 195lbs). I'm DONE with relationships. I've been single for four months and I LOVE it. My friend asked me when...

BigDana

Xper 5 Age: 36

I've had THREE failed relationships and guys turned me down because of my height (6'1) and size (large built, 195lbs). I'm DONE with relationships. I've been single for four months and

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Flirting

How do you meet girls randomly?

So, I have never been good at meeting girls. Lately, I have started feeling more lonely as I see all my friends getting into relationships while I am left on the outside. So my question is how do I meet a girl? Also, like...

niceguy3-94

Xper 5 Age: 32

How do you break out of being a shy hermit?

I'm 23 years old and I've always been shy, but I had friends back home who got me. When I got into college I became even shyer because I thought everyone was cooler and better than me and I never really broke out my...

wendigoStat

Xper 4 Age: 34

If you couldn't make any friends in college, will you be lonely forever? Is it really impossible to make friends after college?

I'm a recent college graduate and unfortunately I didn't make any friends in college. Let me explain. I started at a private university then transferred to a community college because it was cheaper and then transferred...

bjw5336

Xper 3 Age: 34

Is it fine I give up on dating?

I actually gave up dating. Yes I might be young and acknowledge that. But I have had bad moments in dating. I for one has never had a girlfriend, and in total of 7th grade to college I got rejected a total of 80 times. My...

Megapokemonmaster

Xper 5 Age: 28

What to do when he ignores you selectively?

This guy I like is being the most confusing. Sometimes it seems so clear he likes me - like the moment I come into the room he's aware that I'm there and looking at me and always says hello, sits near me in class, etc. -...

moosette134

Xper 7 Age: 32

Suicide: A Permanent "Solution" to a Temporary "Problem"

On this day, April 17th, last year, a buddy of mine decided to take his own life. It was the day after his 25th birthday. I cried on that day. I cried at his funeral. I cried again today. I don't cry much. I don't show...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Guys: do you want to be friends with your casual hook up?

The guy im hooking up with is very lonely because he lost a few friends from his junior year in college and the rest of his friends graduated. He is a senior and says he doesn't like it here when he opens up to me....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Unconventional Love

An Affliction The urges to keep quiet have dissipated as I have let this place and my utter need to escape it; compromise a great deal of me. The hours, days, and months run together. The people lurk, the past fades, and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Girl's Behavior

Is it true that beautiful women are often lonely?

I never know this till I begin to have some female friends. I used to think that they have easier life and men chase them all the time. I have a lot of female friends from different range of attractiveness. I've noticed...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Was he in it for sex? He doesn't want to "be friends" or talk to me anymore since I told him I can't return the same feelings.. Isn't that low?

I've been talking to this guy at my college for a month now; were juniors. Our personalities and interests overlap and are just quite similar. We shared quite a bit. The following 2 weeks we met up every day and hung out...

Pinkicecream

Xper 6 Age: 31

How do I stop falling?

I've been single for about 2 years now and have enjoyed my freedom and finding myself, but I've been extremely lonely lately. All these guys tell me I'm gorgeous and that I'm perfect wife material then turn around and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

22 years old and no social life... why don't people like me?

I've always had problems with making friends, and I think it is due to the fact that I tend to be quite shy. With my family, I am extremely outgoing and funny (they think so, at least!), but I have a very difficult time...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I just take a break or try talking to him again?

My boyfriend and I have to text/talk over the phone more than see each other because we go to different colleges , my boyfriend is amazing and I love him so much but, lately there has been a problem. He doesn't talk to me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Anyone else in college come home and get bored and lonely?

When I come home from college for breaks like Thanksgiving, Winter, Spring, and Summer I feel as if I have no social life and nothing to do at night. I don't like my friends from high school anymore and I only have a few...

andrewerdna101

Xper 4 Age: 29