Search Results: no spark at a date

Tips on getting your ex back

We dated for two years. Broke up because he wanted to be single. We still have a connection. Even though at times in person it gets a little awkwrd.He just wants to be single. I can't do the whole missing thing because...

Vllballgirl

Xper 5 Age: 29

The perfect good bye?

As you see from the title I am in a relationship with my girlfriend... It is the final try to see if this can work out.. I think it's the best I can do.. I met this girl while back we have been dating we fought a lot and...

Gilchun1

Xper 5 Age: 31

I figured he wasn't interested but why did he contact me six month later?

I met a guy last May. Are wacky schedules made it impossible to hang out. After a month of random texts and emails, we hung out . no sparks.I texted him a few days later and no response. I just said F it. Six months...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

An unwanted crush and a like able friend

I’ve been friends with these two guys for a while (they are cousins) . The first guy I’ll just call him a, we met on a double date with his sister and her boyfriend. He seemed nice, it was a little awkward at first...

sunnygrl

Xper 5 Age: 37

Should I give this guy a chance? he's been trying to date me since our freshman year in high school

I have a friend who has been trying to date me since our freshman year in high school. My reason's for avoiding his invitations: 1.) he stalked me for 3 semesters. (I am not exaggerating) 2.)he's get's jealous easily...

definebeauty

Xper 6 Age: 31

Why don't girls date guys they know and love?

Girls always reject the nice guys who take care of them and have know them forever. However, they will date a guy they barely knew a month just because they gave them that "spark". Is this "spark really more important...

Anonymous

(30-35)

We had spark and some really great dates, now I haven't heard from him? Should I message?

I went on 2 fabulous dates with this guy, the last one was the best date I've ever had. We had spark and our first kiss was electric. I was really excited about this one and had no cause for ever thinking he wasn't into...

AmberSue

Xper 4 Age: 38

WHY am I still attracted to this guy?! And what should I do?

I've liked this one guy for a long time an it began with mutual interest at around the same time. But now we're doing our own things in different places and I still think about him. The attraction didn't make sense from...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I get back with him after tricking him this way?

I have to admit I have done something that very wrong when I tried to win my ex back. We have dated for almost one and half year, we shared interests, just like perfect match to each other. We broke up since he said he...

shirlly

Xper 5 Age: 38

How does the 1st date work? A tryout to see if there's spark or you're totally into this other person?

I'm not sure how people look at this issue sometimes. There are people who agree to date a person because they are really attracted to this person and want to make him/her as their life partner or have sex with them (or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My ex boyfriend/ex fwb of 3 months told me that he likes me a lot but doesn’t know if he’ll fall in love?

We’re coworkers and have been for the past 2 years. I was married until 3 months ago so we maintained our distance until we started dating. We still talk a lot and whenever he sees me he seems genuinely concerned with...

dearsuzan

Xper 5 Age: 41

Is she over me or is it worth a 2nd chance?

Ok cut a long story short, lived with my x for five years, broke up 7 months ago, all my fault acted like a jerk, no one else involved. I traveled for six months kept in touch on and off mainly my instigation. she always...

Petrahouse

Xper 5 Age: 45

Relationships

Human intelligence is a questionable gift is it not?

An epitomizing example of the principle of a 'questionable gift' is how humans know for a fact that we will die... living our whole lives knowing this. But what really sparked this thought process in my mind was the...

Electric_Dreams

Explorer Age: 34

Am I a back-up plan??

This guy and I have been sort of on and off for 4 months now. We were immediately attracted to each other and we casually dates a couple times. But there were loads of mixed signals on both sides and he assumed I was...

Bubbles6000

Xper 5 Age: 36

Not sure if I should continue to talk to him?

There is this guy I have been talking to for a whole. We have known each other for years and finally got together last weekend. He drove to see me, had a good time kissed me goodbye before he left. We barely talked for a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What are the signs a guy still has feelings for you?

This guy and I liked each other for 3 or 4 months. It was an instant attraction. He pursued me quite a lot in the beginning, but I stupidly played hard to get, fearful of seeming too eager or overly interested. Anyway,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What are the signs someone still has feelings for you?

This guy & I have known each other for 4 months now. There was an immediate attraction. However, there were loads of mixed signals on both sides & I think neither of us knew where we stood. I'm aloof by nature, so I'm not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can attraction come back after it seems lost??

This guy has been interested in me for 3 or 4 months now & we have been on two dates. There was lots of flirting, but also loads of mixed signals. For starters, I'm aloof by nature & I was always expecting this guy to...

Anonymous

(36-45)