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About 3 moths ago I had an abortion I deeply regret. My boyfriend at the time was being a complete controlling jerk to me and everyone on my side was worried for me and told me abortion would save me and the baby from this Boyfriend of mine and his behavior. Not to mention I was gonna give up NYU, my friends,and try to find a place and he nor I had a job.

Well I went through with it after being so stressed and couldn't handle his controlling so I got the abortion. I tried to do the right thing for 2 months but his behavior scared me I do not wanna be a woman who had to quit school cause her Boyfriend couldn't help her ad get controlled by him. I regretted it so much and my Boyfriend was upset when he found out but forgave me.

I now realize I shouldn't have done it no matter what. I love him so much and he was controlling due to confusion over the pregnancy. I have severe anxiety and my friends/family kept saying they'd think if I had HIS baby Id ruin mine and baby's life and that he was only using me and baby as his meal tickets (which seemed congruent with his behavior at the time)

I started NYU and stopped talking to friends that convinced me to do it and am going to therapy. Me and my Boyfriend are on better terms and I am pregnant again. I am keeping it (I wanted another baby so bad after abortion)

I am so happy and wanna do the right thing. I even gave up going to get a pre pre cancer treatment on cervix to have my baby.

I even went to confession. Am I crazy and a horrible person hat I aborted and now want a baby? (I also drank with the 1st one cause I didn't know, took vitamins too late, had fish, and was super stressed) this time around I am calmer and he's not controlling me. since I am already in school, I can take off and get gov help to take care of baby.

If you were using your gf's pregnancy as a meal ticket so that you can benefit w/o being concerned that shed have to give up school, curse at her, tell her "I'm the father you should listen to what I say" and threaten her friends while she's pregnant cause she's out, continue drinking, and basically push her to find a place while you sat on your ass; would you be shocked/hurt if she decided to have an abortion(behind your back cause she thought you'd kill her) cause she was scared by this treatment?

you know you messed you by acting possessive and crazy while she was stressed ad you never supported her worries enough . you were more concerned with yourself. would this girlfriend deserve to be broken up with?

When I was pregnant with my boyfriend of three months baby, all he did was tell me what to do, where to go and get mad when I was with friends. he threatened to call the movie theater I was in cause I didn't wanna text him during it, cursed my friends out on Facebook and said I was irresponsible to hang out with them. he sat on his ass doing nothing and wanted me to look for apartments, etc pregnant and all. he was in a bad living situation but wasn't stepping up and treating me like crap.

I feel he used my pregnancy as a crutch too "im the father of your to be child and my opinion doesn't matter!" and "your a lying **** I know you're with your friends" and once he got mad at me for no reason and said "were done abort the baby". but of course he really wanted the baby and became obsessed with my every action.

it got so bad, I was frightened and decided to go against my pro life morals and get an abortion. after two whole months he wasn't manning up or helping me and my dreams of NYU graduate school would be over for him. I didn't want my child to suffer this lifestyle with him as a dad and (my boyfriend drinks a lot too) feared that he didn't really care about me or the baby. he could have been using it for a way out.

When he found out I had one, he stayed with me but then called me a murderer. he said "now that you killed it, my uncle won't feel bad and give me a job...now that you killed it, my mom won't let me stay with her and she's kicking me out"

His words totally verified my belief of him using me, what do you think about this? His own mom who's pro life said I made the right choice cause her son isn't responsible, he's a user and treats people like sh*t.

Do you think he genuinely cared about me and the baby or was using it to his benefit? (day I found out I was pregnant, I cried and he don't even comfort me and said "well I'm out of the army now" and didn't even care I had to give uo school)