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I met a guy who is 2-3 years younger than me over a dating app. It took him over 2 weeks to ask me out, over text! He never does call which I am fine with because I never do know what to say over phone. The 1st date was really awkward with me asking most of the questions and him talking. He hardly smiled at all even though we talked until the restaurant almost closed on us. I gave him some chocolates and a pat on the back. He texted me as soon as he got home though and the day after. But, it took him yet another 3 days to propose a 2nd date.

The 2nd date was equally awkward, he just doesn't seem to relax his poker face and I noticed that his hand was visibly shaking when he was dipping his chip. Afterwards he asked me what I would like to do? I really have no idea, why does he expect me to plan the date? I really am not a bad girl, I just didn't know what else to suggest when he asked, I invited him to my place since he was driving me home anyway, and we played some board games and talked. I am scared that he thinks poorly of me over this?

When he was leaving, he reached out his hand, so I shook it, then he said that he was actually reaching for a hug, so I gave him a hug... then he left and doesn't initiate any text that night or the next morning.

At the beginning of the 2nd date we exchanged books to read... so now I have his book... do you think we messed up the 1st date and the 2nd date so badly that it is over now?

During the date he also mentioned that he told his friend's wife about me... and then he added that she is "my age." We are only 2-3 years apart... what is with the "my age" and "your age" thing? He has a problem with me being older?

I met this guy online and we have been talking for months. He initiates the conversations 99% of the time, but I admit that he does disappear for like 2 days sometimes. (This has happened about four times) When this happens, I'll message him "hey" or something and it reverts back to normal. Anyways, we video chat (which consists of him being shy and staring at me dreamily) and what not and he's truly amazing. He sweet, intelligent, smart, etc. Basically everything I've ever dreamed of in a guy. He compliments me like crazy and actually asks me how I'm feeling and listens to my problems. The problem is that he lives in Australia and I live in America. Oh and I'm 16 and he's 17. He wants to visit me/me visit him but my current situation prohibits that (my mom would not let this slide and it's not like I can afford a plane ticket there anyways) but I don't know I'm also worried that if we finally meet up, he would only want sex. Although I highly doubt this as it took months for the topic to finally come up, I'm just worried. It sucks that everyday I anticipate that our "relationship" or whatever you want to call it, will end either soon or terribly. This is the only guy I've ever gotten this close to by the way. I just want to know what you think. Is he interested in me? And why does he disappear sometimes, is it because he wants me to initiate the conversations and check if I'm interested? I admitted to him my fears of the possibility that we may never gain the opportunity to actually meet in person and he admitted that made him sad also, however he was still optimistic that it will happen and when I asked him "And if we do meet up, then what?" he replied, "we'll see *smiles.*" Oh and I don't know if this is big but he still refers to me as his friend which I guess makes sense since I'm not too keen on the idea of dating someone not only long-distance, but without ever having met them in person either. Anyways, any feedback would be greatly appreciated! Thanks :)