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How can I stop being so distant?

I'm very communicative and... distant too. It's really easy to talk with me and I can make people feel comfortable with me... but when it comes to friendships, I become very distant and frightened, I try to avoid close...
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My friend has been ditching me and chose her 3month boyfriend over me! Help?

I got my best friend talking to a really close mate of mine from college - they have known each other 4 months and been together just over 4. My my guy friend from college became distant when I got with my boyfriend...
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Am I in the friendzone?

I've known this girl for about 2 months in my classes. At first I think I was closed to any relationship so I was a bit distant from her on the emotional side but in the last two months I've seen her almost everyday so I...
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Should I stay or should I go?

So, for the past few months, me and a friend, a guy friend, have gotten very close, so close, to the point of spending time at his house and hanging out with him more than usual and being a lot more cuddly than friends...
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Friendzone expanded now a withdrawl? Should I move on? Give the situation space?

Guy friend I have. we been connecting outside the friendship (lots of flirting), mutual that is. Even people close to me pointed out the chemistry both ends. Anyway we are both single, but lately the distance has been...
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How do I know if he likes me?

We met mutual friends and Twitter we actually we can feel each other just as friends but close I could tell he liked me this was about 4 years ago leave talked we hung out a little bit he seems kind of mysterious he's...
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Drawing lines in people relations?

I might sound like a sad, dependent person who can't live without others' love & protection... Ok, I might actually be like that. ANYWAY. I'll get to the point. As a student studying education, I understand how important...
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What should I do?

I was close friends with a girl for about a year. We were quite tight. Some might say an unsual pairing as I normally befriend people (without meaning to) who are more like me whilst she is more the opposite (quite loud,...
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Should I give up on trying to reconnect with an old friend?

When we went to different universities after high school, we both stopped interracting since we both had different lives. Whenever she would invite our highschool friends somewhere, I would want to go, but I was always...
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No LOVE. How do you Cope with Not having any Family or Friends you can rely on Emotionally?

Long story short, i don't have a dad. my mother NEVER interacted with me beyond necessity but not pleasantly and has said before that she wishes she didn't have kids. I grew up dealing with that and a lack fo love and...
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I had to cut a girl out of my life whom I loved... now what?

I got really close to this girl at college. On paper, she's everything I want in a girl - smart, funny, gets my jokes, I can be myself around her, gorgeous legs, we can talk about anything for hours on end. But she's...
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Girls, Im scared of loosing someone close to me.. Can you provide any insight?

Last few texts went the following: 1) I felt like she was being very distant and I had texted her along the lines of "I wanted to apolagise, you know I would never hurt you or do anything to Jepearodise our friendship...
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How do I stop him from becoming so distant?

The guy I am seeing (and live with in dorms) just came back from uni holidays. In the holidays I visited him & he was so nice to me, super cute, friendly ete, when he was away he messaged me all the time. He got back &...
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Is he interested?

There's this guy that works close to a relative of mine that I really like. He has admitted to liking me too. He asked to me kiss him the next time I saw him. The day I saw him again we did in fact kiss and it was...
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Guys, is this a legit reason to break up?

A bit more then 4 years ago, my ex got into some depression. He dropped school and went totally introvert. He lost contact to all his friends and spent next 2 years just being home all day and playing video games. He was...
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Should I call him?

The guy I like at work. Him and I were getting really close then yesterday he just starts being distant and avoiding me and ignoring me.  Before he started doing all this he asked me to hit him up today and hangout......
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Am I wasting my time?

So, I met someone who things were going great with. We were texting each other, every day, all day. We went on a date, and things went awesome. I then became very ill, and couldn't go out for a week. And that week just so...
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Do I have feelings for this guy?

Okay, there's this boy who's one of my closest friends (we've been good friends for about 5 years) we've had sleepovers, gone out places together and with my other friends, we always have really good conversation and he's...
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Okay, there's this boy who's one of my closest friends (we've been good friends for about 5 years) we've had sleepovers, gone out places together and with my other friends, we always Show More
You're crushing on him.
It's just a phase.
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This guy and I used to be close but he got distant?

Many times I would look up and he would smile at me. ☺️He was very shy, but anytime I needed something he would get it for me. 😍 he was always near by, and it made me get butterflies. 💕 when I talked to other guys he...
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Many times I would look up and he would smile at me. ☺️He was very shy, but anytime I needed something he would get it for me. 😍 he was always near by, and it made me get butterflies. Show More
He liked you but wasn't sure if you did
He really likes you and felt vulnerable
he doesn't like you
Other (plz explain)
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How do I deal with a girl who has major trust issues and fear of betrayal? She's my best friend, and she completely trusts me, but is pushing me away?

So I've known her for a long time, and we're best friends. She had a lot happen to her, inpartuclarly with her ex. I've been there to help her through all of it, she's always been very open with me about everything and I...
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