Search Results: when should i contact my ex

Did I ruin my chances at reconciliation?

Me and my ex finally started talking again. He would drunk dial me all the time. I refused to speak to him drunk. We finally meet up sober spend the whole day together and slept together. I think that was a mistake. Then...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does giving an old relationship a second chance ever work?

My ex-boyfriend and I were together for 3 years, lived together for about 9 months, and then were on/off for 2 years. I have insecurity issues, and he has commitment fears from past marriages. We completely split up a...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girl ghosted, now wants to meet up again?

So about 4 months ago, I was chatting to this girl I used to goto school with on Instagram. She used to date this one guy a few months earlier. Conversation was good and planned to meet up. All of a sudden she stops...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl who ghosted messaged me again?

Anonymous

(36-45)

So about 4 months ago, I was chatting to this girl I used to goto school with on Instagram. She used to date this one guy a few months earlier. Conversation was good and planned to

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Boyfriend dumped me and said the most hurtful things. What's your opinion on this story (read below)?

Over the last 1 month and a half I was being over emotional and i think it was due to some gynecological check-ups regarding a problem that I was trying to figure out what it was (I was overwhelmed by thoughts like "what...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Mixed signals from my ex-girlfriend about catching up?

(I'm male - wrong gender accidentally) I broke up with my ex girlfriend in November 2020. For the most part since we broke up, she's been the one initiating contact etc. She's been very hurt and I can tell she wants to be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is there a chance that girls friend zone guys to test them?

I met this girl recently, great chemistry, we used to tease each other all the time She said that I should promise her that I’ll never leave her, I was like yea sure We flirted, I called her beautiful and she called...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Female best friend a nightmare had to end things?

So I've been dating this guy and things were great between us. Unfortunately for me he has a nightmare female bestfriend. Before you all label me a psycho, this girl bullied one of my friends in school so I was already...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Looking for some advice with my ex?

Myself and my ex split about 1 year ago. We were very close and we've remained very pleasant and and in contact this past year. She even wished it could all work out, but obviously I was cautious about the whole thing,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I contact my ex-girlfriend?

I had a relationship 4 years that lasted for a few months. It was the only relationship I ever had. It culminated in us watching a movie together in my bed, cuddling and kissing during the night together. She broke up...

Frank_Woods

Explorer Age: 30

I had a relationship 4 years that lasted for a few months. It was the only relationship I ever had. It culminated in us watching a movie together in my bed, cuddling and kissing during

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Should I try to contact my ex?

I haven't seen my ex in over a year. COVID-19 put us both in a very uncomfortable situation and we both took different paths and we never got the chance to talk about it. When all this happened we were dating for...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ex boyfriend broke up with me but wants to be friends and he tells me to forget about it?

I dont wish to have contact with him but he had a mutal friend pass the message that "he really wants to be friends and that i should forget about it" why would he tell me or expect me to forget about our...

snappysierra

Xper 5 Age: 26

Ex girlfriend split up with me a year ago but I feel she has been leading me on since? During the past year we have been messaging regularly?

And we were even planning to meet up.. now I found out there is a new guy she is seeing (she lied to me when I asked about him, tried to keep it hidden) The thing is we never did no contact as we really like each other...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, Should I start fresh with a new girl, or try to make things right with someone I used to date?

I want to try to re-connect with a women I dated years ago but we've remained in contact. She's willing to meet up, I think it could be a good thing. Albeit true, a clean slate with a brand new person would take away...

mc7500

Xper 3 Age: 31

Which man should I choose... or maybe neither?

Long story Female, 24. My ex and I broke up in May 2020, and we were no contact. I met a guy that I fell for hard, online, 6 months after my break up (Nov. 2020, we spent the whole month together), he is a chef that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Long story Female, 24. My ex and I broke up in May 2020, and we were no contact. I met a guy that I fell for hard, online, 6 months after my break up (Nov. 2020, we spent the whole

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Is it cheating if we are not official and have not met in person yet?

So I had a very toxic relationship for a year which ended in December. Shortly after, I started talking to this guy who was a friend of mine before. He is very sweet, kind and funny. The only problem is we met online so...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does he want?

Two years, he played mind games with a girl whom he supposedly liked a lot, gave her mixed signals then blamed her for not talking to him and ghosted her. He never spoke to her and acted like he didn't know her which he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this Ex just not over me?

Recently since my breakup it’s like any other breakup. No cheating or anything- but recently my ex been talking about we should distance ourselves. I said ok, but they’d keep contacting me. Now, they’ve popped up again....

Anonymous

(25-29)