Search Results: Afraid to commit

I'm having a hard time understanding what happened?

I've been casually dating this guy since May of this year. We've been friends a long time. Throughout the whole thing, despite his claims to not want to date anyone, friends, family, co-workers always assumed him and I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you try to help an ex if you knew they were depressed?

I dated him for almost a year and we broke up once because of his depression. A few months after we got back together he started feeling that way again and things ended again because of it. We kept in touch for months...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Finding the perfect person for you?

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, and he really makes me happy. We have had our differences throughout the two years but we always end up settling them and I think something I admire the most about him is his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm afraid to be in a committed relationship?

I've never been in a relationship. I would flirt with certain guys from time to time but I never go further than that. I'm honestly afraid of being in a relationship. I flirted with this one guy a couple years ago and I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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How bad is my life?

Judging from my situation and lifes problems as a whole, how bad would you say my life is? 1 being the worst 10 being the best. -Im a 30 year old virgin (and have never dated or been kissed, not by choice, can't find a...

mrsingle

Explorer Age: 40

Was this a rejection and why is he keep on staring?

This guy found out i liked him, so he confronted me and told me he is not looking for a relationship right now and gave a reason. His reason was because of a girl last year that played with his heart and his friend also...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

How do I explain that I want to be with a girl?

CONTEXT: I have a friends with benefits relationship with my best friend who's a guy (no intercourse just playing) And we've both said at some point that if we're still doing this in a couple years (we've already been for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to stop sexting and get him to commit?

Met a guy around this time last year, and we off and on have sexted each other ( meaning nudes) till now. I really truly like him though, and want to be with him. We met in September for the first time and kissed, and it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Thought he was the one... was he afraid to commit? what to do about it?

I was with this guy for almost 6 months. He comes over and we talk about the situation. He feels that there is no "chemistry". I tried to wrap around my head around it... and it still makes no sense to me. I meet someone...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are we just friends?

I have a close female friend who i have developed feelings for. She's told me in the past that she liked me too. She has also told me she is afraid to commit to relationships and hasn't dated anyone since I've known her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does coming out of a long relationship make men not want to commit again?

Okay so here's my situation. I've been talking to this guy for about three months now, he got out of a three year relationship with his ex girlfriend in the summer. At first I was his friend/someone to lean on, and he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Okay so here's my situation. I've been talking to this guy for about three months now, he got out of a three year relationship with his ex girlfriend in the summer. At first I was his

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Do you care about legacy?

I've been listening to World Was Wide Enough from the Hamilton soundtrack. It's the part where Hamilton dies. Hamilton's part goes (he's dying here, shot by Burr): “I imagine death so much it feels more like a memory  Is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My Thoughts on the Modern Dating Stalemate at an Overly Academic College

Hello! I fully admit that this whole thing is based mostly on my opinions and observations and I don't really have any detailed evidence but I think that it's an interesting topic and would like to hear other opinions...

ResearcherGuy

Xper 5 Age: 32

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Is it a turn off that, I have never been kissed, Im still a virgin. Im 19?

I feel so BEHIND, Im not ugly or anything. I mean, I had a guy feel me up once but he was just touching me. I had chances to do this stuff. But I don't know.. Can I have a real boyfriend first? So it can mean something...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend is sweet and affectionate one week and cold and distant the next. What does this mean?

My boyfriend has been very "hot and cold" the last couple of months. Some weeks he's sweet, some weeks he's cold. So the last few of weeks he's been wonderful. Treating me right, being more playful and affectionate,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I am emotionally hurt, am I on an abusive relationship?

Hi! I wanted to give ir a try, maybe I could find some online help, because the truth is, I feel very bad... Long story short, I met my current boyfriend almost 2 years ago, he didn't want to commit and we ended up dating...

Carolina610

Xper 4 Age: 36

What does it mean?

I've been dating a really great, introverted guy for over a couple months now. We are intimate, we've had "the talk" already (he initiated), and because of the talk we are taking things slower. We also have a semi long...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why dating for the sake of dating is a bad idea!

I know so many people who date just to date. It doesn't have to be someone you're really into. It doesn't have to be someone you love. There doesn't need to be chemistry nor attraction. That person just happens to be...

aamina_m

Xper 6 Age: 42

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