Search Results: do guys really rate girls

We all know people that seem to be really picky about the physical looks of guys / girls that date or hookup with.

Then we also know people that are seriously not picky at all when it comes to the physical looks of guys / girls that they date or hookup with.

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So the question is:

Think about your "standards" (physically) about people that you choose to date / hookup with.

Now, think about the average person of your gender and their [physical] standards in dating / hookups (or average out the people you've known)...

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...are you "pickier" than that, less picky than that, or pretty much on-the-button precisely the same level of "picky" as them?

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Please vote and reply. Elaborate as much as you feel in your answer.

Don't forget to rate the question...and I'll be awaiting responses. 8-)

When I see all these "nice guys finish last" questions (as well as other similar questions), I always have certain thoughts floating around in my brain...and now I have the words to explain them.

Don't you love it when that happens? :)

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Alot of the dudes who ask, or can very relate to, the types of questions above...i feel want to have a girlfriend, or even something as simple as a girl's phone number SO BADLY...

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...that they don't even care if SHE is attracted to HIM.

What I'm saying is, the dude is so (unintentionally) desperate and selfish, that he doesn't care about the female's physical needs in her partner. He is so focused on having ANY girl that he doesn't care about her physical attraction to him. He thinks:

"Yay, I got a girl!", or "Finally I got that girl I really wanted"...

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...and that's where his thoughts end.

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My point? Me personally...i wouldn't date a girl I felt wasn't physically attracted to me.

Pardon me for being crude, but I want females to look at me and want to f*ck me. I want to be desirable to the female gender. I want them to "double take" me, to smile and flirt with me, and definitely to touch me. :)

I take care of my appearance (shaving, facial routine [no homo lol], hair routine, wearing clean & pressed & properly-fitting clothes, matching outfits, having a personal style).

I eat pretty well health-wise (minimizing junk food, drink tea EVERYDAY as well as one cup of tea per cup of soda, watching food portions overall, drink plenty of water).

I take care of my body (full-body stretches twice a day, I do calisthenics for strength and play basketball/football for cardio, I listen to my body to make sure I get proper rest; my mood overall is usually a positive one because I do all the above).

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My point?

I do all of the above for ME...but I know >=95% of females are attracted to a healthy-looking, stylish, fun-attituded, well-put-together guys.

I want my girlfriend to look at me and say "he's yummy"...

...instead of "he treats me well and he's nice, so I GUESS I'll date him although he's not attractive to me sexually"

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So guys and girls, please vote and elaborate; if you wanna be long-winded I will read it.

Don't forget to rate the question...and thanks for reading as well as your input. :)

Now that I think about it...I don't recall a ? like this being asked on GaG. There's a first time for everything. 8-)

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If a girl did the above action to a stranger, would you think that she is leading the guy on, being a tease, or being an attention-whore?

The reason why I ask this is b/c, not to be an ass, but I find no reason to compliment a stranger of the gender you're sexually attracted to...

...unless you're interested in that person.

Otherwise, why lead the person on?

Ex. I wouldn't walk up to a female stranger that I have ZERO interest in and say "your hair is really nice", "your makeup is really pretty", or "I love your legs".

Cauz frankly, that's an opening line to talk to someone of interest, and doing that would give the wrong message.

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this ? is a good example of the scenario I'm talking about (check out my answer, and the comments on it, if you please, to get my insight:

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I'm not sure how many guys or girls agree or disagree with me; that's what the poll is for lol.

So please vote, elaborate in your answer, and please don't forget to rate.

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Thanks for helping me strengthen my knowledge, everyone. I shall be awaiting responses. :)

I really don't know how to say this without seeming incredibly stupid/troll-like/etc, but here goes ...

Since I'm literally the world's stupidest creature when it comes to the female species, I have a simple question. When I'm sitting around on my campus or walking by a woman, I notice that a lot of girls will look at me. Like, unyielding, unwavering stares, for 5, 6, 7 seconds; if I don't look at them, they'll keep looking at me until we pass or they leave. But once they see me look at them back, they look away and never look at me again. Why do they do this? Is it because they're checking me out, and think I'm attractive? Is it because they think I'm ugly as f***, or because I haven't shaved since Nov. 1? I take it as I'm being checked out, and don't put too much weight to it either way. But I'm very curious.

So ladies in particular, why do you look at a guy for an extended period (and he doesn't look back)?

I don't really want to post a photo, because I don't want this to turn into an "OMG rate me plz" thread, but if you want me to, say so.