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My crush and I message all day long. All summer he's been complaining about how his relationship with his gf is boring, he's bored with her and feels "unsettled". She feels the same he said but instead of just breaking up, they're going to let it die. I'm also in a relationship that has lost its spark.

Meanwhile everyday our convos get more intimate and he tells me he is looking for something diff and is missing curiosity and excitement. I said the same.

He tells me about dreams he's had where he was naked, talked about his underwear preferences, described his bed and room to me, asked me if I was into everything from period sex to bondage and threesomes and has told me that he has lots of condoms. He also made sure I knew that he and gf did not have sex on a recent vacation and once I told him I was sweaty from working out and he said "yum".

It seems like he's trying to look available to me, at least sexually, but I'm still not 100% sure he isn't joking around. I would die if I actually suggested hooking up and then he says lol or jk or something =stupid. I'm only afraid of this bc he has this pattern of asking me something wild and then pretending to not want to know the answer! So annoying!

I got brave last night and told him that I knew what I wanted.
Then he teased me a bunch and said "you know you want it", so I said yes I do. We verbally spar a lot and he was pretending to be mad at me and I said I like it when he yells at me. I meant the play fighting, us calling each other out on stuff, him calling me "gurl" and "woman" and trying to act like an alpha male. HE put the two things I said together and said, "ohhhhhhh, THAT'S what you want! bondage? you like it when I yell at you?"

I was so shocked that that's where his mind went ( we talk about everything but that was taking it up a few notches) so I just said I would answer any/all q's he had and he said NOOOO. WHY does HE bring up/ask ME stuff and then act scandalized?

My guy friend and I message on and off all day, almost every day. He does and says almost every one of the "signs a guy is into you" from the Internet but of course he won't make it easy by just saying, "I want you." He tells me stuff like that he's a nudist and has condoms and lube in his room. He's told me that girls approach him for hookups (and one 3way) but he said no bc he wasn't into any of them. He asks me about stuff I would be into, 3ways, hook ups with friends and period sex are recent examples.

I know he's not trying to use me because he was super excited when I admitted that I like him and he kept telling everyone that I reciprocated! He keeps joking around about me sounding like his gf or that we sound like gf/bf... but that would be ridiculous! ( his words), so I just say OBviously and want to die. I know joking and teasing are signs but it makes me crazy! I just want to scream just tell me what you want!
We've said we love each other ( as friends), he's pecked my cheek, laid his head on me and nuzzled, sits glued to my side, stares into my eyes ( it feels like we're doing it), pats my upper arm, shoulders, lower back and gives me giant hugs from behind. He always tells everyone how awesome I am.

Sooo... I may be crazy but are we just friends? I don't think so but that's what he says. Could he be afraid to make a move on me? I know he respects me and cares about me a lot.

However... I'm not worried about ruining our friendship by adding sex. How can I make that clear without sending him Rihanna lyrics? ;) I don't want to freak him out by letting him know how much I want him. Do guys want to hear that?

Today just to tease him I said I was going to work out, get all sweaty and jump in the pool. His response: yum. That was it. Is that guy talk for let's get naked? He teases me so much that I asked him if he was always sarcastic and he said no. I said good and I'll keep that in mind ;)

What do I do now?

My guy friend and I are incredibly intimate. We've been friends for three years but at the end of last term I felt like things changed. He would seek me out several times a day, leave stuff in my locker to have a reason to see me before and after school, find out my schedule so we could spend as much time together as possible, be in the same after school clubs with me, etc. He told me he really likes talking to me and spending time with me.

The catch is that he has a gf of 13 months (she goes to a diff school). Here's where I get confused. A month ago I went to a play at school bc he was working the soundboard. He invited me to sit in the balcony next to him, met me downstairs, walked up with me and then introduced me to GF, who was also doing sound! He never told me she was going to be there, but he claimed he did. Then he says, in front of her, that we are his two favorite people and asks me if I want to sit behind him and whisper sweet nothings in his ear! He had the nerve to complain about how he had to "put up with" her touching his knee while I was there.

We message a lot on FB and talk about everything: family stuff, school, sex, hobbies, and he vents to me about gf a lot. He tells me that he blows up at her, they fight a lot, he "loves her to death but can't shake her" and is bored with her. He found out she had been role playing online with another guy and they were in virtual love and she was having his pretend child. After that he broke up with her and made her cry but they made up. He told me he's only slept with her. He also said that girls at school tried to get him into a 3way but he wasn't attracted to them so he didn't. Guys... WHY is he telling me this stuff? Why, if I am just a friend, do I need to know where he keeps his condoms, what kind they are and where he keeps his lube? He also talks about eating p&@$y
more than seems normal and likes to play songs for me about it... why?