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Last year I saw this girl and I instantly wanted to get to know her. She was taken so I backed off. She wanted to get a fake ID, I showed her mine and got her in contact with my roommate who was ordering some. Instead of asking my roommate questions she would text me, which I took as her looking for an excuse to talk to me. When she had been single for a month I invited her to my fraternity formal. We talked, danced, and I was a huge gentleman. At the bar she slipped backwards into the wall and got a cut on her back, she was drunk and "browning-out." We went back to her place where I patched her up and gave her a back massage. However she refused to cuddle, stopped my advances and kept telling me to go out and hook up with someone. I told her I didn't want to and that I wasn't into hooking up with strangers. I told her if she wanted me to leave I would have no problem and she said I should stay only to hint at me to leave later. We talked and slept on/next to each other until 4am. She wanted to study with me the next day but I flaked because I was kinda put off by her asking me to leave so many times the night before. We texted for 2 weeks after that where it was awesome and she thought I was hilarious. We would also play soccer/flirt together on the weekends. 3 weeks early I asked to go out with me on St. Pattys and she agreed. But she asked if it was a date thing, it was, and she said it sounded cool and ended the text with a smiley face. We wound up studying and we flirted hard and I asked her what she remembered from the formal, she remembered the massage and a few other things. Spring break rolled up the week before St Patty's and I was really sick and I didn't text her at all that week. That's when she would rarely text back and flaked on St Pattys. This year I don't see her on campus so I text her inviting her to catch up over sushi. She says she's sick and she would get back to me and called me bud. 1 month later we don't text and simply greet eachother now.