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I'm really unsure about this. Here's a few examples about why:

1. I just broke up with my ex 3 days ago and I feel like my life is in shambles. She was a really good girl, had all the qualities I was looking for, but she said she doesn't think she deserves me. To "recover", I went out to the club with a couple of guy friends from work and ran into the girl I liked before I met my ex. I was drunk and couldn't stop thinking about her. The girl I used to like turned out to be almost everything I don't want in a girl. But while I was drunk and even hours after I sobered up, I caught feelings for her again. I almost drunk texted her several times. Do I really like this girl or is this me being drunk messing up my judgement?

2. Back in college I liked this really popular girl. I slid in her Instagram DMs but she called me an asshole and said I was lucky to get a reply. Two days later she's back in my DMs sending me thank you messages with a bunch of crying face emojis. I asked her what she's thanking me for. She said "Sorry. I was drunk." Ever since then, she's been liking most of my Instagram posts. Especially the ones I post with my family. Does she really like me or is just embarrassed she messaged me drunk?

3. One of my co-workers is constantly sharing stories of bad run ins with guys. I think she likes the bad boys. One time when she was drunk she took a fake Uber from one bar to the next and gave the driver her number. He catcalled her and she got in the car. She called him a good Samaritan. But another time she met a guy at the DMV and he left a note on her car saying call me, but she thought he was creepy and a pedophile. No matter whether she's drunk or sober, she's always bragging about the bad boys.

So what do you think? Does being drunk enhances how we truly feel or make us stupid?