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All of my closest friends, including my "best" friend and roommate, started up a group on Facebook where they make plans to go out all the time. This started after I told them I was tired of being the one to organize ALL of the meetups by myself with no help from any of them. I was never added to this group, so I'm never even aware of these meetups taking place.

I found out, because I was home when my roommate was heading to one of them. I asked her where she was going, because I wanted to know how long she would be out to see if we could make plans together. She told me where she was going and with whom. I obviously got upset.

Then, my roommate tells me that she told all of them, that I wouldn't want to attend that evening, because I'd be spending time with my boyfriend, whom was working all night. But this never actually happened, she never said this to them, she just told me that she had said this, so that I wouldn't be mad at the rest of them. The fuck? So basically, she spoke on my behalf, without checking with me. So obviously she's the problem, right?

I confronted them, to inform them that my roommate doesn't speak for me, and they told me about the Facebook group. They refuse to admit that I was intentionally left out because the information was right there in the group for all to see, and they're all pointing the finger at each other saying that someone else should have added/invited me to the group, and that I have no right to be upset, because it's "no big deal", and I'm just being a drama queen.

Last weekend I met this guy at a party. I thought he was really cool and I started to like him more and more as the party progressed and he seemed to like me too. We talked about anime, sang karaoke together and just had a lot of fun. I never met him before and I was afraid I'd never see him again if I did nothing, so I asked him if I could add him on Facebook when I left (I wasn't brave enough to ask for his number, lame I know..). He said sure, but that he wasn't on Facebook a lot. It did seem to bother him a bit that I left a bit early.

I noticed he was online on Facebook and I really wanted to say hi, but now my insecurity issues strike again and I'm not sure if that would be weird. It's not like I know him very well and he hasn't made any effort to contact me. I'm afraid that maybe he just liked me at the party, but nothing more.

Should I say hi?

Note: I know he's single and that he's not gay xD