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I love my boyfriend to death, and I would do anything for him. And he's also my best friend, and I care about him so much. And I think about him all the time, and he sometimes is even in my dreams. I am crazy about him, but the thing is sometimes I forget I am w/ him. I've liked him for 3 years, & I've known him for 2 years. But we started dating almost 2 weeks ago. And I don't know why, I forget that I have a boyfriend sometimes. Maybe it has something to do w/ our relationship being new? I was single for about 6 months, before I started dating him & I was used to it for so long. And now that I'm dating someone it's different, but good different. I am extremely attracted to my boyfriend, I think he's so handsome but I just forget that he is mine.

Like sometimes I run into attractive guys, or I might spot one & I think "he's cute" or something like that. But I never talk to them or make a move, bc I realize I'm dating someone & I'm not the type to cheat.

Is this a bad thing? Yes or no?

There's this shy guy I've been friends with for half a year, only thing is I have a boyfriend, and NOO I wouldn't cheat on this guy with him. I am kinda curious because this guy seems though he might like me. He is a very nice guy, he seems caring and respectful. I don't know if he's just friendly towards me, or if he likes me but is shy about it, he has never told me he likes me, but he's given hints. Here are a few

He wishes me good luck quite often.
Makes sure I'm okay if I feel down.
Uses a lot of emoticons and !!! s when he types
When I see him in person, he stutters quite a bit, and his voice goes deep, when it's just me and him, he seems less shy.
Has told me I'm awesome/great person.
Has never put me down or said something negative towards me/about me
Has always said something like "Well done" or "Great stuff, I knew you could do it" if I excel at something.
He tells me to keep positive if I feel sad.
He can be sarcastic, and jokes about.
Has asked me to hangout (However with a few people)
Always smiles when he sees me, but can sometimes say um quite a bit when he talks.
Has told me that if I have problems, that he's there if I ever need to talk.
He's actually never talked or said anything bad about my boyfriend
Texts quite a bit, always seems happy to talk.
Asks about hobbies/interests/music and he discusses them too.

He does seem very awkward though in general. His style is kinda alaternative. He has longish hair which is kinda emoish, he's thin, wears denim/leather jackets, skinny dark/black jeans, t-shirts with band logos, bracelets, converse shoes. One or two have speculated that he might be gay though

Just curious could he have feelings for me? I like him as a guy friend, that's about it, plus I don't think he would ever tell me if he likes me due to the awkwardness.

There's this shy guy I've been friends with for half a year, only thing is I have a boyfriend, and NOO I wouldn't cheat on this guy with him. I am kinda curious because this guy seems though he might like me. He is a very nice guy, he seems caring and respectful. I don't know if he's just friendly towards me, or if he likes me but is shy about it, he has never told me he likes me, but he's given hints. Here are a few

He wishes me good luck quite often.
Makes sure I'm okay if I feel down.
Uses a lot of emoticons and !!! s when he types
When I see him in person, he stutters quite a bit, and his voice goes deep, when it's just me and him, he seems less shy.
Has told me I'm awesome/great person.
Has never put me down or said something negative towards me/about me
Has always said something like "Well done" or "Great stuff, I knew you could do it" if I excel at something.
He tells me to keep positive if I feel sad.
He can be sarcastic, and jokes about.
Has asked me to hangout (However with a few people)
Always smiles when he sees me, but can sometimes say um quite a bit when he talks.
Has told me that if I have problems, that he's there if I ever need to talk.
He's actually never talked or said anything bad about my boyfriend
Texts quite a bit, always seems happy to talk.
Asks about hobbies/interests/music and he discusses them too.

He does seem very awkward though in general. His style is kinda alaternative. He has longish hair which is kinda emoish, he's thin, wears denim/leather jackets, skinny dark/black jeans, t-shirts with band logos, bracelets, converse shoes. One or two have speculated that he might be gay though

Just curious could he have feelings for me? I like him as a guy friend, that's about it, plus I don't think he would ever tell me if he likes me due to the awkwardness.

I doubted him because he was still on active on Tinder. We met on Tinder and I told him I deleted it but saw he was still active when we officially got together as boyfriend and girlfriend. I kept it to myself for a week and then I confronted him. At first he said he doesn't know why it shows he's still active.
Then a few minutes he admitted that he might have checked it now and then just to see who he matched with and doesn't know why I doubt him.
Also, we had unprotected sex about 3 times and he said sorry he doesn't buy condoms on the regular expecting to sleep around. He doesn't want to use old expired things not knowing when he will sleep around again. He says all this doubt hurts him and it bothers him. He thinks that I will never trust him.

I have really bad trust issues but that Tinder thing put me off.
He asked me if I would like to delete the app for him. I said no, and then over the phone talking he said he uninstalled it. Of course that's just words though. I'm not there physically to see if he did or not. How can I believe it? Just magically believe and hope for the best that he did delete it?
He says he really wants this to work and he really likes me. That if something bothers me I need to tell him immediately and not wait a week or so. I don't believe he cheats physically because every where he goes he lets me know who he is with, I can hear them on the phone, and I know his schedule pretty well. We talk everyday and all day as well. I really like him and I want this to work, but im very insecure.

We live 7000 miles away (I'm in Asia and my boyfriend lives in Europe). I have been in this so called relationship for 1.5 years, we both have visited each other in each our countries and we always plan ahead when is the next visit.

But my main problem here is up to this point I do not believe in long distance relationships and I have trust issues. I kept going because my boyfriend is a genuinely nice person and he's willing to do anything to make it work and for us to be together in the future, which is why I want to believe that this will work. But there will always be a part of me that keeps on saying it will all end one day. Furthermore, knowing or having heard of all these people whom had been unfaithful to their partners, whether they live near or far, (I have also accidentally been the side chick a few times), I don't believe that there are men out there who are completely faithful to their partners. Not to mention the first time we met he was still hung up on his ex girlfriend, whom he sometimes still sees since they are in the same circle of friends.

These had been the biggest issues between us and I have tried to break up for these reasons several times. I always ask him if he had ever cheated on me or if he ever had any attraction for someone else. I've also accused him of still having feelings for his ex girlfriend. He kept telling me he had never done or felt such thing. As far as I know he had never lied to me and he had never mistreated me.
I know I might be insecure but I really cannot ignore these thoughts of him being unfaithful.

I really don't know what to do. I need some insights!